BFP! Story and a question

RandiDeeAnn

Hi Ladies! I got my BFP on Sunday and am due 6.26.12. This is baby number two, and hopefully my VBAC baby. So far, it doesn't seem real that my potential VBAC is already counting down.

DD was delivered at 36w5d due to pre-e and a two day "failed" induction. It was a fail...a hospital fail! DD's heart rate dropped at the second dose of pit on day one, so they turned everything off then started back a few hours later at a half dose. Everything was fine. Then at around 3 p.m., the nurses came in and said, okay we're going to turn this off and start over tomorrow. My OB came in and offered a section or a re-do the next day with a different doc as he was going OOT. I declined the section and started over on day two. 

They started the pit at a full dose with no problem. The second dose, also a full (did we not figure this out yesterday?), went in and her heart rate decelled. No options, no discussion. Just sign this and off to OR. I didn't see her for a long time, and BF was a disaster.

I hope that once we can tell DD about the baby this can be a healing and bonding experience for us and that being more proactive will help me bond with the new LO more easily.

Anyway, does anyone have the link to that awesome list of OB questions for VBAC?