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lilhotcandie69
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Alone now
lilhotcandie69
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BD is taking DD for the night. Its been 7 months since he has taken her overnight. I feel so alone, sad, depressed, lost. I feel empty with her gone. Is this normal? and how do you ladies deal with this?
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Re: Alone now
I am sorry you are going through this. I have yet to experience this but will do so soon when my stbxh moves out next month. I know stbxh will take good care of my DS so there is some relief in that. I am not sure what your situation with BD but if you don't think DD is safe with him, then please fight hard to not put your DD in this situation. We don't get what we deserve but rather we get what we negotiate or fight for in court.
I think it is especially normal for the first night! I would imagine I feel the same. You have given so much of yourself to be the best mom you can be for your DD. While it is very hard, try to give yourself "me" time and take time to discover yourself. You are just as important as your daughter and have just as much needs as her.