Having the babies again for a little bit....alone!

June4bride2be

Eeeekkkkk.....got to say I am a little nervous dh isn't home. Today she faces him in court. She wanted to take babies to let him see what he gave up I guess, but DA said no. So, they are coming here at 3 for a couple hours.

5 kiddos awake will be a bigger challenge than 5 asleep! 

I tell myself that we have twin mommies here that do it 24/7....and even a trip mommy....I can do it for a couple!

MelissaSue81

You definitely can! Maybe the itty bitties will just sleep most of the time.

Ashnmike528

I have zero doubt that you will be able to do it!  GL!

June4bride2be

One slept the entire 3 hours! The other slept, ate, spit up, pooped, slept.....haha You really forget about the newborn stage!

jnk062602

You are great with a bunch of kids!

Does the babies' dad know you have them sometimes though?  Do you have any concerns about him coming to your house or anything like that?

June4bride2be

jnk062602:

You are great with a bunch of kids!

Does the babies' dad know you have them sometimes though?  Do you have any concerns about him coming to your house or anything like that?

Well....not right now I don't. He is jailed until next Monday. The babies have a no contact order so if he violates he is jailed again. He has to start va court which I guess is pretty tough.....and if he misses 1 meeting he goes straight back to jail for 1 yr. He can not come near them. I have thought about it but realize he may be a big guy.....but he is weak minded. He won't come here. 

I should also add that I would NEVER put my own family or anyone in my house in harms way. I did consider saying no to watching them when she had to do this stuff but I just couldn't. I didn't want her not to pursue protection just because she didn't have anyone to watch the LO's.