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There are 5 LO's in my house...SLEEPING! =)

June4bride2beJune4bride2be
in Upstate NY Babies

Wow! lol

Long story but bff dropped her 9 week old preemies off about 45 min ago. BF hit her again, he is in jail again (3 felony charges now). She has no one, no family....nada! She had to go to family court and get orders and what not. I could not say no, she needs all the help she can get.

My house has a sleeping 2 yr old.....(2) 1 yr olds....and (2) 9 week olds! I know it won't last but my adrenalin is super high! 

ETA....I am super thankful dh is home today to help me....just in case it hits the fan! =)

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Re: There are 5 LO's in my house...SLEEPING! =)

  • goosh24goosh24
    Wow-go S for getting them all to sleep!  That guy sounds like such a loser, I hope she stays away from him for good (or he stays in jail). 
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  • Irisheyes1247Irisheyes1247 member
    Oh man, I can't believe they are all sleeping! You are going to be a busy lady today! I hope things work out for your friend and she really sticks with her guns this time instead of taking this loser back. That is really out of hand, especially with the two teeny babies in the picture, in addition to the other kids.
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  • June4bride2beJune4bride2be

    I hope she is really done, these babies don't deserve a life of fear and pain. I have known her since I was 2, she took him back to give the lo's a family and to have support. It is so sad, I don't think anyone could ever know why they go back to abuse until you see it or experience it first hand. She is afraid to be alone and to do this alone, yet she is afraid for her life when she is around him. She can't work...daycare will cost as much as she could make. She can't even put these tiny babies in daycare yet, gah....makes me sad.

    I have met him several times, I just ignore him.....loser!  

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  • missyjgmissyjg member
    Yay for sleeping babies! But that's so sad about her situation. She's lucky to have a friend like you. I hope things work out for her.

    TTC since 6/2003. m/c 9/14/03 8 weeks, 5 chemical pregnancies, mmc 6/04 12 weeks, Michael born sleeping 5/25/05 at 22weeks always our angel, fought ovarian cancer and won, m/c 4/06 5.2 weeks and 7/07 6.6 weeks,Our Miracle baby girl born 4/8/10,mc 12/18/11 at 5.3 weeks, BFP 10/26/12 dating u/s on 11/8/12 showing a strong heartbeat!EDD July 4,2013. RCS on 6/27. Baby boy in NICU for 8 long and scary days before he was able to come home. We are now a happy family of 4

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  • Ashnmike528Ashnmike528 member
    I'm very impressed that you have all of them asleep! I am sorry for the circumstances though. It must be a relief to her to know that you are there for her, when she has nobody to turn to. I hope she stays strong and does what is right for her and her babies.
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  • JenJarJenJar
    You're a great friend!
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  • jnk062602jnk062602
    Awww, I occasionally think about her.  It seemed like an inevitable thing, but I hope she will stay strong and be done this time.  And I hope she doesn't bounce to another loser with the same record.  Poor babies.
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