Things you judge people for.

lurkylulu2

Excitedtostart:

I judge people who won't let boys play with girls toys - dolls, play kitchens, dollhouses. 

 

If that's in response to my question to Leslie yesterday, I was just curious. I've never known anyone personally who just bought their son a doll house. I do know someone who bought their son a Ken doll once though.

Excitedtostart

sevans1975:

btaylor19:

That is why we have White Castle

Damn right!

Dear sweet baby Jesus no. Never again. Not even if I were starving and it was the only 'food' available.

robinsokj

I judge most nonvaxers and many delayed vaxxers. Ibhave a judge-a-thon whenever go to walmart. I judge my mom for her eating habits. I sometimes judge my man arms

JenniferJaneC

Jack has had sips of soda.  It's not a big deal.  I'm very pro healthy eating and anti-fast food, but I'm also going to be real about it - a few sips of soda or an occasional fast food fry isn't going to hurt anyone.  I just don't want him to develop a taste or preference for it.

 I judge people who don't keep their dogs on leashes.  I was running on Sunday at dusk and a giant black dog ran down the middle of the street with his owner casually strolling after him.  1)  A car coming down the street would have had a really hard time seeing the dog - it was dark, the dog is black, and he was in the middle of the road.  2)  It scared the hell out of me.  I don't know if the dog is friendly, wild, or what.

mrsmacias2008

I judge:

people who voted for Bush..the second time

people who give their kids sweets/soda when they are.still.babies. And then wonder why they need all that dental work later

people who drink anything alcoholic while pregnant. To me, wine counts.

BoopADoopBetty

I judge people who can't do simple addition without a calculator or their fingers. It isn't difficult to add 5 plus 3.

Also thanks to my tutoring, I judge parents who homeschool their kids in higher grades (like high school) and don't know how to do the math themselves (or any other subject), so they cannot teach their kids. I realize homeschooling has its pros and cons as well as public schooling, but how much are you really helping your child if you can't even teach them what they need to know? Yes, I'd be great at teaching my kid science and math, but Lord knows I'd be doing them an injustice if I had to teach them english/literature.

robinsokj

I judge people who push/peddle religion

sevans1975

Excitedtostart:

sevans1975:

btaylor19:

That is why we have White Castle

Damn right!

Dear sweet baby Jesus no. Never again. Not even if I were starving and it was the only 'food' available.

By the vehemence in your rejection of Sliders...I take it you had a bad experience there?

That is why I don't eat at Burger King...I had an unfortunate indicent w/ a Whopper Jr. once roughly 20ish years ago and it soured me on the whole place forever.

joanithegreat

Excitedtostart:

sevans1975:

btaylor19:

That is why we have White Castle

Damn right!

Dear sweet baby Jesus no. Never again. Not even if I were starving and it was the only 'food' available.

Don't tell me this.  I have always wanted to eat at White Castle (ever since I saw Harold and Kumar go to White Castle).  We don't have them in Canada.

BoopADoopBetty

robinsokj:

I judge people who push/peddle religion

Me too, and the town we live in is TERRIBLE with this.

btaylor19

Excitedtostart:

sevans1975:

btaylor19:

That is why we have White Castle

Damn right!

Dear sweet baby Jesus no. Never again. Not even if I were starving and it was the only 'food' available.

My heart is breaking right now, how can you not love their chicken rings?  They are little tiny rings of heaven

sevans1975

joanithegreat:

Excitedtostart:

sevans1975:

btaylor19:

That is why we have White Castle

Damn right!

Dear sweet baby Jesus no. Never again. Not even if I were starving and it was the only 'food' available.

Don't tell me this.  I have always wanted to eat at White Castle (ever since I saw Harold and Kumar go to White Castle).  We don't have them in Canada.

Can you get the frozen ones in the grocery store?  Honestly, they are pretty much the same.

twentyeightlegs

I judge women with epic fake tits. Seems to be an epidemic around here. They almost always are too tan and have bottle blond hair too. 

magdalina.h

I judge people put the infant car seats in the upper part of the cart.

joanithegreat

sevans1975:

joanithegreat:

Excitedtostart:

sevans1975:

btaylor19:

That is why we have White Castle

Damn right!

Dear sweet baby Jesus no. Never again. Not even if I were starving and it was the only 'food' available.

Don't tell me this.  I have always wanted to eat at White Castle (ever since I saw Harold and Kumar go to White Castle).  We don't have them in Canada.

Can you get the frozen ones in the grocery store?  Honestly, they are pretty much the same.

Nope.  They don't have them in the grocery store here.  We don't have a lot of the fun foods or fast food restaurants you guys have in the States.

leslie13510

lurkylulu2:

Excitedtostart:

I judge people who won't let boys play with girls toys - dolls, play kitchens, dollhouses. 

 

If that's in response to my question to Leslie yesterday, I was just curious. I've never known anyone personally who just bought their son a doll house. I do know someone who bought their son a Ken doll once though.

I'm actually building their dollhouses from scratch if it makes a difference.  And with his interests, it's probably going to be more like a bachelor pad than anything.  He likes playing with "girly" toys like houses, dolls, cleaning stuff, etc, but he's also very "boy" when it comes to his current interests.  He'll push a doll stroller around the house, but it's usually got an Iron Man toy in it.  I love that child so much. 

And on that note, I judge the shiit out of everybody who is going to give me crap for making my boy a dollhouse.  I'm not even talking about you here Lurky, but our very traditional and conservative friends and family that I know are going to have things to say about it.  Whatev.  Hopefully by the time I'm done with him, my boy won't be like their "men" who have issues doing things like changing diapers, cleaning house, cooking dinner, and any other "women's work" like that.  God forbid a man help his wife keep his own house clean, or wash his own work clothes, right? 

(Clearly I'm passionate about gender stereotypes haha.  Sorry that got so long.)

abbyful

I judge bad parenting. Not the occasional temper-tantrum, but people like my neighbors. Last 4th of July, the 3-year-old and 6-year-old where outside alone, unsupervised, lighting fireworks!  (The exploding kind, not just smoke-bombs. Even for smoke-bombs, I think they should be supervised at that age!) That's just one example of a laundry-list of poor parenting I've seen by them on a daily basis.

BlueEyes313

I judge people who attempt to use the self check-out lane at the grocery store and have to ask for help 5 times. It's not hard people! I also judge people who go into these lines with a full cart!

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lurkylulu2

leslie13510:

lurkylulu2:

Excitedtostart:

I judge people who won't let boys play with girls toys - dolls, play kitchens, dollhouses. 

 

If that's in response to my question to Leslie yesterday, I was just curious. I've never known anyone personally who just bought their son a doll house. I do know someone who bought their son a Ken doll once though.

I'm actually building their dollhouses from scratch if it makes a difference.  And with his interests, it's probably going to be more like a bachelor pad than anything.  He likes playing with "girly" toys like houses, dolls, cleaning stuff, etc, but he's also very "boy" when it comes to his current interests.  He'll push a doll stroller around the house, but it's usually got an Iron Man toy in it.  I love that child so much. 

And on that note, I judge the shiit out of everybody who is going to give me crap for making my boy a dollhouse.  I'm not even talking about you here Lurky, but our very traditional and conservative friends and family that I know are going to have things to say about it.  Whatev.  Hopefully by the time I'm done with him, my boy won't be like their "men" who have issues doing things like changing diapers, cleaning house, cooking dinner, and any other "women's work" like that.  God forbid a man help his wife keep his own house clean, or wash his own work clothes, right? 

(Clearly I'm passionate about gender stereotypes haha.  Sorry that got so long.)

I really wasn't judging you. I was genuinely curious about it.

LucyAnnie

poor grooming habits - but Im pretty sure I am not alone here. 

easjer05

I judge people who are incapable of re-evaluating their stance on things if new information comes to light.  I judge people who refuse to admit they may have been wrong.  I judge people who refuse to try and see the other side of an argument.

I judge people who make snap decisions about me based on weight.  I judge medical personnel who comment on my weight when I am pregnant, because there is nothing I can do about it at this point, genius (I am eating as healthfully as m/s will allow, not eating for two, not downing the sweets, etc).  That's why my Ob and peri are amazing - it's simple a medical fact at this point that doesn't need constant repeating.  I'm fat, and we're moving on.

I judge people who say they are busy in my office, but who have less than half the work I do and are always able to leave on time and never work on weekends.  Or people who miss deadlines because the couldn't be bothered to come in on a weekend.  I don't like it, but we're salaried - that's what they pay us for, dimwit.

dragontears507

I judge people who have children and then continue to party like they don't. Probably partly due to my own IF struggles, but it's unfair and sucks none the less.

I judge people who dress inappropriattely at events, like wearing jeans to a funeral or a slut dress to a wedding.

lurkylulu2

dragontears507:

I judge people who have children and then continue to party like they don't. Probably partly due to my own IF struggles, but it's unfair and sucks none the less.

Define party.

heather_09_15_07

lurkylulu2:

dragontears507:

I judge people who have children and then continue to party like they don't. Probably partly due to my own IF struggles, but it's unfair and sucks none the less.

Define party.

This is what I was wondering.

wintersnight20

I judge people who are incapable of quitting smoking when pregnant/ smoking away from their small children. Not saying you have to be a saint but don't punish your kiddos health with your poor decision making skills.

I judge bad grooming and yes that includes wearing your pajamas into public. It takes less than 30 seconds to put on blue jeans and put your hair in a half assed ponytail.

I judge people who think I should be on WIC/Unemployment/Welfare since I was let go from my job at 22 weeks pregnant. Bite me. I got myself into this mess (well not really) and I will somehow with a little faith and budgeting survive it until I find another full time job. It makes me feel like people think that I'm incompetant or that my baby will go without and thats not the case. Government programs should be for those who are in TRUE need not those who just want to use their grocery money for something else...grrr...

heuy

I judge people who drive around with a smile on their face.

Not the showing-teeth kind of smile, but the one that almost looks smug but you know they're just smiling because they never have a shiity day. 

easjer05

I judge people who quote the Bible as if that proved their argument.  Um, you may believe it to be the divine word of God, but I don't, and if we're just pulling random quotes out of thin air then I'm going to counter with Dr. Suess or something equally ridiculous to prove my point.  I'm perfectly fine and not-judgey with people who believe something on the basis of their religion, but quoting your religious text is not a clinching argument for reasoned debate among people of a variety of beliefs.

I also judge people who refuse to acknowledge that the bible they read is a translated document and that there are differing interpretations based not only on translations between languages but cultural issues that affect how something would have been understood by, say, a 5th c. audience versus how it would be understood today.  The Bible was not direct-faxed in English (NSV) from God.  For the record.

TotallyNot_Isha

I judge people who are on the phone while driving, texting while driving, or anything related to poor driving. Driving has always been one of my major anxiety points, and now, instead of scaring me, it pisses me the eff off when I see people being all lax about something that requires such diligence. 

Also, there are a large number of people in Socal who handle their driving anger in the following way: laying on their horn, swerving around to get in front of you and slamming on their brakes (edited to fix the right kind of break/brake, because, you know, I teach English). What kind of messed up brain do you have if it brought you to this as a logical conclusion? I might swear and yell inside my car, maybe even honk if you are putting me in danger, but never would I willingly jeopardize the well being of someone else.  

Melaneigh1

Easjer, I absolutely could not have said waht you said, though I've tried many, many times (about the bible).

I judge any adult who wears anything at all with Looney Tunes on it.

armandos_girl

I judge anyone who buys Rick Perry's propaganda at face value without looking at the facts for what he has really done as governor of Texas. And anyone who, when presented with those facts, chooses to ignore them completely and blabber on about how good he would be as president.

easjer05

armandos_girl:

I judge anyone who buys Rick Perry's propaganda at face value without looking at the facts for what he has really done as governor of Texas. And anyone who, when presented with those facts, chooses to ignore them completely and blabber on about how good he would be as president.

Amen, sister.  He's killed public education in Texas and there are a vast number of state employees who have been RIF'd or laid off wondering where all this great economic expansion is coming from, exactly.

BoopADoopBetty

easjer05:

armandos_girl:

I judge anyone who buys Rick Perry's propaganda at face value without looking at the facts for what he has really done as governor of Texas. And anyone who, when presented with those facts, chooses to ignore them completely and blabber on about how good he would be as president.

Amen, sister.  He's killed public education in Texas and there are a vast number of state employees who have been RIF'd or laid off wondering where all this great economic expansion is coming from, exactly.

I completely agree with what you both are saying. Expecially about killing Texas' public education. It sickens me.

Mrs_Liberto

I judge those who are giant pains in the ass or flat out refuse to try new foods. I cannot STAND that most of them brush it off with a "haha, sorry I'm picky!".

FFS, people. Try something new besides meatloaf and mashed potatoes for once!

TheOriginalSP

Mrs_Liberto:

I judge those who are giant pains in the ass or flat out refuse to try new foods. I cannot STAND that most of them brush it off with a "haha, sorry I'm picky!".

FFS, people. Try something new besides meatloaf and mashed potatoes for once!

For years and years I refused to try guacamole becuase I was pretty sure that I was going to hate it.  When I finally did try it I wanted to kick myself for not trying it sooner.  Avocados are heaven in fruit (or is it veggie) form.  OMG.  LOVE THEM!

joanithegreat

Mrs_Liberto:

I judge those who are giant pains in the ass or flat out refuse to try new foods. I cannot STAND that most of them brush it off with a "haha, sorry I'm picky!".

FFS, people. Try something new besides meatloaf and mashed potatoes for once!

I used to be like that, I was the worlds pickiest eater as a kid.  I am still pretty picky but I always try new things when given the opportunity.  I am mad at myself for refusing to try new things when I was a kid because I missed out on some pretty yummy food.

DH can be pretty leary about trying new things so I don't tell him what it is I just stick it in front of him and tell him to try it. 

+diana82+

heather_09_15_07:

lurkylulu2:

dragontears507:

I judge people who have children and then continue to party like they don't. Probably partly due to my own IF struggles, but it's unfair and sucks none the less.

Define party.

This is what I was wondering.

I'd like to hear that one too.

shibby00

1.  I judge people who put their infant carseat on the top of the cart, too

2.  People who type 'loose' for 'lose'

3.  People who don't vaccinate their kids (unless they have a medical condition where they can't be vax'd)

4.  People who have really strong opinions on BF

5. People who dress their DD's in baby slut clothes.

I think that is all for now and apparently I'm a judgmental biotch, too. 

dragontears507

+diana82+:

heather_09_15_07:

lurkylulu2:

dragontears507:

I judge people who have children and then continue to party like they don't. Probably partly due to my own IF struggles, but it's unfair and sucks none the less.

Define party.

This is what I was wondering.

I'd like to hear that one too.

As in leave their newborn to go get wasted with friends at the bar. I'm all for having a couple of drinks with friends, but acting as though you don't have children and raging like you're in college is judgment-worthy in my book.

Mrs.Slick

BoopADoopBetty:

easjer05:

armandos_girl:

I judge anyone who buys Rick Perry's propaganda at face value without looking at the facts for what he has really done as governor of Texas. And anyone who, when presented with those facts, chooses to ignore them completely and blabber on about how good he would be as president.

Amen, sister.  He's killed public education in Texas and there are a vast number of state employees who have been RIF'd or laid off wondering where all this great economic expansion is coming from, exactly.

I completely agree with what you both are saying. Expecially about killing Texas' public education. It sickens me.

I want to hug all three of you.

 

And I judge people who think they're more deserving of being a parent than others.