I am not in a rush, but Dh is gone so much that its hard to not stress a bit.
We have never really had to try for our babies and I am SO thankful for that, my hats off to you ladies who made it through IF.
Our older 2 are 18 months apart and I love it, but we waited until August to TTC #3 so that we could have a bigger spacing (for my sanity). With DH's schedule on the rig, it makes it harder to TTC. He's gone for 3 weeks and then home for 3 weeks. We missed my August ovulation by a few days, and this time he was home so we tried a lot
, I am 5 days from my period and hoping for a BFP, otherwise we'll have to wait until the end of Nov to try again and after that is another two months from when I will O while he's home. I'm not obsessing over it, but I feel if I dont get pregnant by December I may start to...I am already feeling REALLY ready for #3 since DD is getting close to the age that DS was when she was born. Im young, I know I have time, but I am getting that itch, big time!
Thanks for letting me vent! Hopefully I get good news in a few days!
Re: Baby number 3-the wait.
If there's one thing I learned from IF it's that when you're ready, you're ready.
A BFN sucks when you're ready.
(granted.... 2 years of them do such much worse but that doesn't mean that the first one doesn't hurt pretty darned bad)
I hope you get your BFP this cycle.
Waiting is hard and I hope you don't have to.
Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living my baby you'll be.
- Robert Munsch