****Tarah****

Karma1969

Please forgive me for saying this, but you are putting the cart way before the horse. I'm saything this out of case and concern for you.  I feel so badly that you are dealing with this, and the pain must be beyond excruciating....but, many women with PCOS who have had losses have gone on to have healthy babies through TI, IUI's, IVF's, and shockingly surprise taking a break months.

 

I pray that you will be one of them.  Don't lose hope yet.  It's too soon for that for you.

 

Hugs.....

Tarahville

I know I'm counting my chickens before they hatch - but right now this is my way of dealing with it.

I'm angry, I'm miserable and I think my eggs are shit. That could very well change if our testing is approved. But right now, I hate my body, I hate my reproductive organs - so I'm blaming it on the eggs. Trust me they can take the blame!

Karma1969

I understand.  :-(

LisaandBryan

I hope you don't mind me butting in Tarah but I also thought I was going to need DE because of PCOS and was trying to my head around it.  I am only 29 so it was kidn of h ard for me to accept .  Our first IVF was diastrous, only 1 embryo (and a crappy one at that) survived out of 22!  I was convinced it was my eggs.  I don't know what happend becase as you can ssee after IVF #2 , I am now pregnant with twins and we have 7 frozen embroys.  Its so surreal to me sometimes. 
The point is I wouldn't go there just yet.  I think (forgive me if I am wrong) that you are on the younger side so I don't think its tiem to go to DE just yet. 

Tarahville

That's the problem with us IF ladies - we always want answers and we want something/someone to blame.

Oh well - Thank you though for watching out for my well-being. I'm just one pissed off bitter biotch right now.

And I truly hope that I can be a PCOS success story. As you know IF sucks big monkey balls and getting through it with a happy ending is all we want.

((HUGS))

Tarahville

LisaandBryan:

I hope you don't mind me butting in Tarah but I also thought I was going to need DE because of PCOS and was trying to my head around it.  I am only 29 so it was kidn of h ard for me to accept .  Our first IVF was disastrous, only 1 embryo (and a crappy one at that) survived out of 22!  I was convinced it was my eggs.  I don't know what happened because as you can see after IVF #2 , I am now pregnant with twins and we have 7 frozen embryos.  Its so surreal to me sometimes. 
The point is I wouldn't go there just yet.  I think (forgive me if I am wrong) that you are on the younger side so I don't think its time to go to DE just yet. 

I'm so happy to hear success stories about PCOS. I'm just scared out of my mind right now. Congrats on your twin blessings and I hope to be celebrating a PCOS miracle in the near future.

I'll be 31 on Monday - so I guess that does leave me in the younger category. I am hoping that BC/BS will give us a break and approve our testing so we can get some answers. That's all I really want right now - is answers and a solution to our problems.

Karma1969

Our main issue was MFI, but I have PCOS too. 

 

I desperately hope that you will get the answers you need and deserve soon.  You will have a baby Tarah.  I have never said that to anyone here before. 

Tarahville

Que - water works!

Thank you for saying that - I think that's what I need to hear. ((HUGS))