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JCGreene85JCGreene85 member
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EX just planned his first visit the same weekend of my bday and of course we already have plans. He says I'm breeching our agreement if I don't let him see wy bc he only has to give "notice" of his visits.. Isn't the point of giving notice to see if it works with my schedule too? Is he right? What do I do? I can't contact my attorney until tomorrow.
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  • achase123achase123
    He's full of BS, as per usual.
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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member

    What does your CO say in regards to birthdays? I am just asking bc DH's CO for my SS says he gets SS EOW, fathers day and DH birthday. So if DH bday or fathers day lands on a weekend DH isnt slotted to get SS he will get him anway.

    If its your birthday then you should have your child. See if BF will agree to that situation if its not already outlined in your CO.

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  • JCGreene85JCGreene85 member

    Well, I didn't outline my birthday in the temporary which is my fault. All I outlined was DS's birthday and Christmas. I just told him it was low to schedule it on my birthday when he could have come Sunday/Monday. I think by not making a big deal about it (to him) ticked him off even more.

    We'll see what happens. My mom knows I am upset so I am sure she will keep me busy on my birthday. I sure hope he knows Karma is a B!tch :) I wont be leaving anything out in March when we make the final.

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  • turtle1120turtle1120
    Well what does the order say?  Our temporary order is totally open ended.  It says at times and places mutually agreeable to the parties.  He can request whenever, but if we're busy, we're busy, and I say no.  So depending on the wording you could have the right to tell him that he needs to schedule it for another time.
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  • CPA04CPA04

    imageachase123:
    He's full of BS, as per usual.

    Yup.  XH did this as well and got in a tizzy when I told him he couldn't make up a visit on a certain weekend because we already had plans.  He threatened to hold me in contempt of court (for following the CO mind you....).  I swear our X's are one in the same! 

    If your CO doesn't specify, then I'd tell him he needs to pick a different time.  Give him a few other options to demonstrate you're trying to be flexible and reasonable and not "keeping" Wy from him.

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