BeeBee

Delta04

Hey Bee, did you POAS to get the "official" results for this last IUI.  Sorry if I missed your update.  Hope you are well! 

BeeBee08

Well, I did...at like 8dpiui, but AF arrived four days early and put me out of my misery.  On a positive note, it means my last and final IUI cycle (funded by my RE that I "fired") is under way and FINALLY we can get on to IVF. 

However, I'm seething right now because DH made the comment about doing IVF in the four months and I said "no".  Actually, what I said was "get on board or get out".  Ooops.    Whatever, in the spring he said we should wait until the fall, now it's fall and he's saying four more months.  Enough!  We're going to be in debt either way at the end of this so what's four more months going to do?  Denial doesn't make babies. 

Hope you're well too!  I was thinking about you this weekend, how was the wedding?

Delta04

I know you are definitely ready to move forward and kudos again for getting the RE to comp your last IUI!  Sorry DH wants to wait.  I don't know what it is about husbands.  Sometimes I don't think they really understand.  MH has insisted that we try "naturally" until our next cycle...and he really believes that it will happen.  I'm like not with your SA numbers and my crappy eggs, it ain't!!  But of course, I can't go there...huge sigh.  I think denial is HUGE and you are right, it does not make babies! 

I am sure Mr. Bee will get on board soon.  The wedding went really well.  Thanks for asking.  I was able to connect with several friends from undergrad and re-live my youth!  LOL!  Work is crazy but other that all is well. 

Sloane99

BeeBee08:

However, I'm seething right now because DH made the comment about doing IVF in the four months and I said "no".  Actually, what I said was "get on board or get out".  Ooops.    Whatever, in the spring he said we should wait until the fall, now it's fall and he's saying four more months.  Enough!  We're going to be in debt either way at the end of this so what's four more months going to do?  Denial doesn't make babies. 

Ugh, I'm so sorry, I know you wanted to be done with IUIs a while ago, seems like you've already made a few compromises here. I hope you guys can have a good talk about it and get back on the same page.

BeeBee08

Sloane99:

BeeBee08:

However, I'm seething right now because DH made the comment about doing IVF in the four months and I said "no".  Actually, what I said was "get on board or get out".  Ooops.    Whatever, in the spring he said we should wait until the fall, now it's fall and he's saying four more months.  Enough!  We're going to be in debt either way at the end of this so what's four more months going to do?  Denial doesn't make babies. 

Ugh, I'm so sorry, I know you wanted to be done with IUIs a while ago, seems like you've already made a few compromises here. I hope you guys can have a good talk about it and get back on the same page.

Thanks Sloane!  I don't know what's more frustrating right now, him or BFN's.