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**Whine Wednesday**
Ok 10 min early but tomorrow is crazy for me- so not sure when I will get to it:
What's got you juggling frogs this week?
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Re: **Whine Wednesday**
This one is going to make ya'll eye roll at me! lol
Even after my post below about being wishy washy with dh....I am whining because I got a BFN this am. I know I o'd, we had sex....why am I not pregnant? ***says the girl who has IF issues and should know it isn't that easy***
I am not even cleared to get pregnant, supposed to wait until a normal pap in January. Yet, AF is late and I am bummed.
Nat's sleeping is getting worse, not better and I've tried EVERYTHING. This all started with teething so I'm assuming it's time for a 3rd tooth?
The twins go down at 7pm and she's usually up 2-3x a night before their 6:30am wake up. She won't sleep without having a bottle. At least one of those times she wakes B up but he's stealthy- he'll lay there til I'm back in my bed... then start fussing. This is way worse than when they were newborns. I don't think I've slept more than like 2 hr stretches in months. I'm delirious.
Wow M! That is tough. Hopefully she starts sleeping better soon. Sleep deprivation, to me, is the toughest part of parenting (this far
).
I go back to work tomorrow
For some reason, my back has been super stiff lately. Probably from me carrying around two kids
. DH gave me a nice, long back massage last night, but I think that I need to go in for a full hour (this I would not whine about).
We are building a deck and I got wet concrete in my eye on Monday, it's been hurting all week.
The kids are sleeping like crap! They have both been up at least 2-3 times a night for I don't even know how long. I woke up sitting in Brianna's bed leaning against the wall this morning. Not one of the people who are supposed to be helping me with the kids' behaviors have any thing to offer that I am not already doing to help with their sleep.
Well my dental drama continues. Remember 3 months ago how I had no pain or anything but was told I had 3 cavities? And got them done and it was horrible - she tried 3 times to numb me and then I just did it not numb bc no way I was continuing that on. And then had to go back 3 times to have the filling ground down bc of high spots?
The sensitivity to cold never ended. And when I flossed in that area my gums would bleed.
So obviously I have been on the search for a new dentist. I finally found someone (anyone!) that my insurance covered that came recommended from a friend. I was like the crazy dentist lady and I was asking all my friends who there dentist was and then seeing if my insurance took them.
I went to the new dentist - (Periodontist, so I still need a general dentist, but she took me bc of the gum bleeding thing). The gum bleeding she just chalked up to pregnancy bc she said they look otherwise healthy - yay! Then she said that the previous dentist must not have had a dry field when she put the filling in. My filling shrunk and pulled away from the tooth causing bacteria to be allowed in the hole. She said I should go back to that dentist bc otherwise I would be charged full price anywhere else (my insurance only pays for one filling per tooth per 5 yrs). When she said that I burst out crying - lovely huh? BUT she was nice enough to get me numb in her office so that I didn't have to do another filling un-numb. So she drilled out the filling, had to drill deeper bc of the constant exposure to bacteria. So now my nerve is exposed. And I have to take an antibiotic for the next week to prevent further issues. And it is still sore.
And then I get home and DH complains that my dental appts take too long and that I stick him with dd on what he thought would be his day off. Ugh.
My IL's continue to show my just how crazy they really are.
DH has been going to into work around 6 for the last couple of mornings. Which is fine, L is good in the morning and sits and watches Handy Manny after I get him dressed. However, DH sets his alarm for 5am, and hits snooze until 5:45. Because i'm sucha light sleeper I've been up at 5 with him.
Dude, I would be flipping out if DH told me something like that. Day off? Oh man.
My whine: It breaks my heart when I have to leave for work and B starts screaming "mama mama" and then I see her run as fast as she can to grab her shoes so she can go with me. She sits down and tries to put her shoes on herself. Ahhhhh, tear my heart out. Then I see her little face in the window as I pull out and she's crying waving goodbye. She stays with my mom, but it still breaks my heart. Lovely way to start my day, bawling. Stupid bills, I wish we could swing it so I could stay home. Oh well, it is what it is.
TTC since 6/2003. m/c 9/14/03 8 weeks, 5 chemical pregnancies, mmc 6/04 12 weeks, Michael born sleeping 5/25/05 at 22weeks always our angel, fought ovarian cancer and won, m/c 4/06 5.2 weeks and 7/07 6.6 weeks,Our Miracle baby girl born 4/8/10,mc 12/18/11 at 5.3 weeks, BFP 10/26/12 dating u/s on 11/8/12 showing a strong heartbeat!EDD July 4,2013. RCS on 6/27. Baby boy in NICU for 8 long and scary days before he was able to come home. We are now a happy family of 4
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Oh gosh do I ever feel your pain! L does this sometimes, and it's the worst thing ever!!!