My DH took off work today and tomorrow. He has never stayed with the baby this long with out me. (I work too) I was changing DD and said "you are staying home with daddy today and that makes mommy a little nervous" well DH heard me and got super pissed. I feel so bad. Don't know what to do now. BTW I am only nervous because I didn't want her to get off her schedule and I am just a nervous person when it come to DD. Ugh I am an idiot.
Re: Made a mistake this morning...
He needs to chillax, I say this to my H all the time, even now. When she was younger I meant it though, but he was more nervous than I was. Just reassure him that you don't think he is incapable of caring for her and move on.
I'll admit that DH is keeping DD overnight for the 1st time next weekend. And I'm nervous.
I know deep down, that he'll do wonderful. He's really very good with her. My only concern is him over stimulating her. He likes to play and she goes right along with him. Then she gets super ticked cause she's tired. LOL.
I know that my DH would be super pissed and super hurt if he heard me say that I was nervous.
If I were you, I'd sit down and explain and apologize like crazy.
It's okay to be nervous.
I'm think this with a side order of BJ.
LOL so true!
By lilenatalem at 2012-01-28