"If you can do it on your own? How stupid. Thing happen, yes, but you do not start a child's life off by giving it a crap father and hoping for the best. You don't tie an innocent baby to that forever. You abort, and move on. Well, smart people do anyway." -another bumpie
If you have a child and are a single parent are you stupid? Are you giving that child a terrible life?
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HOLY FRICK!!! My sweet baby Jesus!
I'm almost at a loss for words?? Wait no i'm NOT.....
I am a single mom of 3 not by my own choice but it just happened that way. I was planning on getting married to the father of my children but, things happened and I moved on. Is it a struggle HELL YES, every dam day!
Do my children suffer from our circumstances NO! I work very hard and provide a good life for my kids. They are very well taken care of and are all very smart. Heck my 5 y/o who just started Kindergarten 4 weeks ago can already spell "red" "blue" "orange" and write his name almost perfectly. I will say we have only been on our own for 7 months. But I don't consider my self stupid. I by far can say that it was the SMARTEST choice I made to leave.
I can't stand when people group all "single moms" into one catergory!
This. I've seen her say some of the dumbest things EVER.
Would I judge the OP for choosing abortion? No.
Does that mean I think babies with single parents are doomed? No.
She needs to be the one to make that decision. If she doesn't thing she can be a great mom maybe it's for the best. I don't know that though, I'm not her.
Ultimately no one can really make a good suggestion for her, hopefully she can be completely honest with herself and make a good decision. Whatever that is.