I'm due next month...and the father didn't talk to me the first 3 months...then we got along and were doing good, then he got back with his ex bc they just had a baby together....horrible relationship. He says he wants to get back together after the baby is here but I'm not thinking so...I'm so scared of being a single mom and doing it alone..idc if we aren't together, I want him to see his son though. I still have feelings for him but I think it's best to wait for someone better..he obviously doesn't care if he hasn't talked to me for the past 3 months again...he doesn't have a job or phone now...loser! He went downhill after our breakup...ugh. I don't think I'll put his name on the birth certificate...and if he doesn't help out I'll take him to court ig....okay I'm done lol just had to vent!
Re: Almost due and father still isn't in picture..getting scared.
as someone who got pregnant by a D-bag 9 years ago I will share what I learned the hard way
a d-bag will always be a d-bag
your child is better off with one really good parent than having 2 parents who are on again off again and the one stresses out the other 24/7
child support is not punishment for not helping out...regardless if he is involved or not...file for child support...it is for the baby
do not give your LO his last name....you will regret it every time the doctor or school calls and asks for mrs ______
remember...nothing you do (or dont do) can make him want to be a father...either he does or does not want to be an involved father
put your child first always and forget the romantic fantasy that maybe the relationship will work out....
Ditto. Don't be THAT girl.
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I was just lurking but one of your statements annoyed me "I don't think I will put his name on the b/cert."
What right to you have to "play god" with your unborn childs life? Every child has the right to know who their parents are - even if he is a d-bag or a loser or whatever. If you don't name the father here in NZ you cannot claim Child Support payments either.