...agree on a CS amount with BF instead of going through the court system?
DH and BM have been in and out of court for years and a set amount has not been established bc BM either says its too low or DH income changed due to deployments/moving. He has been paying the amount specified in their seperation agreement from years ago ($700).
If your XH/XSO offered an amount would you take it outside of court? For example based on income the CS obligation is $917. If you were offered $500 every other week would you take it (bringing the total to $1000/month).
We are just so tired of being in and out of court and want something finalized. Do you think this is reasonable to suggest to BM or should we just stick with the court?
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013