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Surprise BFP but then a C/P

Last week I had a positive pregnancy test. I hadn't had a period since July so I figured might as well test even though with my PCOS I have had some long cycles.

The line was very light though and the following day it was even lighter.  I finally got in for a beta (my RE wouldn't do one since it was a "spontaneous pregnancy" which really pissed me off) and it was only 12.  I went into two days later and it was 7...I started bleeding yesterday.

Surprisingly I am ok...DH thinks maybe this could happen on our own now; but I worry with my PCOS/MTHFR and MFI that even if it did happen on it's own it would just be another miscarriage and with my cervix sewn shut I can't have a D & C so that really scares me as I would need a c-section.

It made me realize though is that I am ready to be pregnant again so we are going to do our FET in January when my insurance resets and I can max out my flexible spending account.

Anyhow, that is the update with me. My work is starting to calm down some so I am hoping to be around more too!

TTC since 07/2009
Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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Re: Surprise BFP but then a C/P

  • Oh my goodness!  I'm so sorry that it turned out to be a c/p.  I am glad though, to hear that it gave you the realization that you're ready again, and I can't wait to see your BFP in January!!    
  • Oh wow, sweetie!!  I am so sorry about the cp, but excited to hear that you're ready to do it all again!  GL and tons of good vibes, sticky vibes, PPVs, etc!!

    Big ((hugs))

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  • Yay for a BFP, but so sorry to hear it was a C/P... bummer.  That is so exciting that you are ready to try again.  I wish you nothing but the best of luck when you do FET in January.

    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • Sorry about the c/p, sweetie. I know that wasn't easy, even if your hopes weren't that high. I am glad you are trying again in January, and I will be rooting for you the whole way. 
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  • Hun, I'm really sorry but alos really happy about January for you and your DH.  I'll be thinking of you and watching for your positive updates!
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  • I'm so sorry about your c/p, but so happy you are going to do a FET in January. ((hugs))
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  • ((HUGE HUGS))  I'm so sorry about the C/P.  I'm glad that you feel ready to try again, though.  I'm keeping you in my T&Ps. 

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    Me= 37 and DH = 41 

    Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)

    IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN

    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

  • I'm sorry about your c/p! I can't wait till you cycle again in Jan.
    ::: Married June 2003:::
    TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
    Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
    DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
    Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
    IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
    IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
    IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
    IVF# 4= c/p
    ***CCRM ODWU***
    Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
    Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
    ***New RE***
    DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. 
    IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
    IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
    Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015


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  • I'm so sorry hun ((((hugs))).  I am glad that you are moving forward in January.   
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  • I am so sorry for all you have been through.

    I really hope that you get your sticky BFP in January. 

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  • I'm sorry about the c/p but glad that it helped you realize you were ready to try again.  That's wonderful news! 
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  • I am so sorry to hear of your c/p hun ((Hugs))

    I am really glad you have decided you are ready to move on to a FET in January. You know we all wish you the best!!!! :)

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  • I'm so sorry, but i'm glad ur feeling better about the idea of trying again.  HUGS
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  • I am so sorry hon. I hope you get a super sticky BFP from your FET.
    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

    Thankful for every day

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  • I am so very sorry about the c/p. But glad you are ready for your FET!!!

    Thinking good thoughts for you! 

    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

    *PAIFW/SAIFW*

  • So sorry about the c/p.  What a mindfvck.

    Best wishes that your upcoming FET is the sticky, take home baby you so deserve.

    TTC since 3-08 IVF # 1 Dec 2011 BFP DD born at 31 weeks 6-24-12

    FET #1 Dec 2013 BFN

    FET # 2 Feb 2014 BFN

    No more frosties

    IVF #2. September 2014

    PGD yielded 2 perfect 5d blasts

    SET November 9, 2014
    Nov 23, 2014. Another BFN

    Not sure where to go from here.

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  • I'm so sorry hon. I am glad though that you feel you're ready to move forward. I'll be keeping everything crossed for you in January ((HUGS)).
    TTC 12/2009
    Me: 32 - Stage II Endo / DH: 36 - Low count and morphology (1%)
    IUIs 1-3 BFN, lap Dec. 2010, IUIs 4-6 BFN
    IVF w/ICSI #1 - ER 2/8: 24R 19M 9F ET 2/13 2-5 day blasts (no frosties) = BFP - b/g twins!
    E & C Born 10/19/2012
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  • I'm so sorry about the c/p.  That stinks!

    Best of luck with your upcoming FET!!

    IVF #3 = Feb 2012
    beta#1 3/21 (14dp3dt)=413, beta#2 3/23 (16dp3dt)=785, u/s 4/11
    EDD 11/25/12
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  • ((hugs)) I'm sorry, hon. But, I'm glad you're ready to take the next step in January.
    Trying to grow our family with both fertility treatments and adoption since March 2009 
    IUIs#1-4 = BFN, IVF#1 = c/p, IVF#2 = OHSS, FET#1=BFP
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  • Wow. I am sorry to hear about the c/p but happy to hear about the FET. Good luck!!
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  • I am so so sorry it was a c/p. I'm happy for you for being ready to try again! I hope the next few months fly by you so you can get started again soon!

    Thinking of you and sending huge hugs!!!


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  • Sending huge (((HUGS))) your way. I'm p*ssed you had that happen to you, especially after all you've gone through. You have an awesome attitude about it, though and I give you so much credit. I'm glad work is going well, and I'm hoping to see you around these parts more often! We've missed you!
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  • Wow, what a roller coaster, sorry for your c/p and I hope your FET in January brings you home a baby/babies... you deserve it!!
  • I'm sorry about the c/p!  Everything is crossed for you for January!

    TTC Since 10/08 4 IUIs=BFNx4
    IVF#1=BFP!! Twins!!
    Bradley and Billy born and lost on 2/2/11 at 19w2d due to pPROM/PTL. I miss you, little angels.
    IVF#2=BFN
    IVF#3=c/p IVF#4=Empty Follicle Syndrome; 1 mature, fertilized, & made it to blast. 5dt of "the lone ranger" on 9/6. Please stick, little one! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • ((HUGS))

    so sorry about the c/p 

     

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
  • I'm so sorry that you had a chemical, but I'm glad that you're ready to move forward and have a plan. Good luck in January!
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