I am usually over in the "April Moms" section but I have a question I thought someone over here might be more familiar with? Maybe not, since you all have healthy muiltiples...but here goes it...
At 6 weeks 3 days I was told I had twins originally, but that one was not maturing, and it would not form from embryo into a baby.
I dont see my dr until next Fri but I have a question before then! Is it a possibility that I may experience a miscarriage with the embryo that will not mature? I am so nervous about miscarrying my healthy baby and I want to know if I should expect this or if that is not a possibility? Anybody have any ideas? Any help would be great!
Re: Will I miscarry the twin that wont mature?
i'm sorry your doc didn't give you more info.
Disappearing Twin is not uncommon... most women don't know they have one because they don't have an US early enough to even know they ever had twins...
generally your body will just absorb the twin that doesn't make it- and they say it does not effect the outcome for the other baby - that generally everything is fine for the rest of the pregnancy.
You might have some spotting, but that's not uncommon for any healthy pregnancy.
i personally know many women who had a disappearing twin and all was fine with the other baby.
I am sorry about your situation tho.
Thank you VERY much for your reply. I should have asked my dr at the time, but I was caught offguard and didnt have questions prepared for that outcome! He did say how common it was, and I only had a U/S so early because I had slight spotting. So I probably would not have known otherwise. He didnt mention the absorbing part, but its a relief to hear...I was worried I might miscarry and not know which baby (embryo) it was. I feel better already thanks again, your a big help!
Thank you VERY much for your reply. I should have asked my dr at the time, but I was caught offguard and didnt have questions prepared for that outcome! He did say how common it was, and I only had a U/S so early because I had slight spotting. So I probably would not have known otherwise. He didnt mention the absorbing part, but its a relief to hear...I was worried I might miscarry and not know which baby (embryo) it was. I feel better already thanks again, your a big help!
Wedding Fall 2007 Off OCP's since 9/08-started with BBT charts Saw Ob/gyn May 2009 Blood work normal except single copy of MTHFR Clomid 50mg May 2009 Clomid 50mg + IUI June 2009 Femara 5mg + IUI July 2009 Normal HSG July 2009 Femara 5mg + ovidrel+IUI August 2009 Femara 5mg +ovidrel + IUI September 2009 November 2009-normal lap December 2009-met with RE December/January-Injectible med cycle with IUI-Abnormal sperm morpology found-only 0-1% normal All Head defects. Jan/Feb 2010 1st IVF with ICSI-5 week chemical pregnancy
Feb 2010-male infertility doc says DH's anatomy and blood work are normal so nothing he can do.
FET July 2010-BFP! Twin m/c @ 5.5 wks
Dec/Jan 2011 IVF #2 Only 4 eggs retrieved-Ganirelix dose messed up BFFN
Feb/March 2011 IVF #3 ER 3/9 9 eggs, 7 fertilized, ET 3/14, No frosties. BFN
IVF #4 ER 8/22 9R,7F ET 8/25-3 embies, 1 frostie! Beta 9/2= 54, 9/6=274, 9/8=625, 9/12=2953, 9/16 greater than 10,000. B/G TWINS born April 2012 @ 36wks & 1 day!
July 2014-going back for the frozen embryo! ET 7/28, heartbeat seen at 6wks1day with SCH. Miscarriage confirmed at 6wks4days
I actually only had one sac, both embryos were in there together, visibe on the u/s but no heartbeat for baby 2. It was much much smaller, too. The dr never used the words "vanishing twin" so I am not sure if that is exactly what I had. I just know that the second embryo will not be maturing.
2 chem preg, 4 failed IUIs, 2 canc IVFs, 2 BFN IVFs, IVF #5 = BFP!!!
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First u/s 3/29 @ 5 weeks 2 days - 3 sacs 6 weeks 3 days - 3 heartbeats 8 Weeks - Lost Baby C, Babies A and B going strong
I am bleeding today and just called my dr who said basically the same, that this bleeding is almost certainly due to that vanishing twin. Of course I would never hope to lose a twin, but I am looking on the bright side that at least my remaining baby is growing healthy. I pray he stays this way every day!