I saw my new doctor today and we went over all my old records. She is very supportive of vbac's... I am excited but not getting my hopes up yet... Me and hubby are talking about maybe a baby #2. Although he is not very supportive of a vbac. I need to find a way to talk to him about it... That's because my old doctor told us once a c/s I will need another c/s. That hospital has the vbac banned.She was not going to let me do a trial of labor with the next,they would schedule a c/s. So I'm thinking that's why he thinks a vbac is a no no... How did you other vbac momma's get your hubby on bored with your vbac????? My hubby is impossible...
Wyatt 10/6/2010 The love of our life
Re: Wooo hooo !!!!!!!!
I'm trying to bring him onboard slowly and show him the reality of the risks. I bring it up or show him an article every month or so. But, I try not to obsess - because he was accusing me of being fixated. So my advice is to take it SLOWLY.
And I agree with pp, bring hime to your appointments.
I want him to come to my appointment . I hope he can take off of work.. He works 15+hrs everyday. My hubby is the hardest person I know who will not like what my new doctor say's, because what my old doctor said.. He will think my new doctor is a quack.. I had a c/s due to a "fibroid" it's the kid almost every pregnant woman get's. I for got the name. I dilated fast 3cm-complet with in 4hrs. My old doctor even said I was doing amazing .But when my old doctor was doing the c/s she realized my son was big and was sunny side up. Then after she said 'any more kids I have will have to be by c/s'. That she don't want me to have trial of labor. My old hospital has the vbac banned. My new doctor said yesterday she doubts that the fibroid was the cause for me to not have a vaginal birth. She said just looking at me it was baby being to big and the sunny side up position.... She checked me and she she couldn't find or feel the fibroid. So it obviously shrunk back to nothing like they normally do. I just hope he don't make a issue out of this... Thanks ladies for the advice....