Bad night

CTumelty

So I have 2 weddings coming up and when I ordered my bridesmaid dresses I was pg. I ordered next weekends dress 2 sizes too big because I should be 5 months pg right now. After getting fitting (and $110 later) I came home and found out that we will be receiving a bill for almost $1,000 for the genetic testng of the baby. So needless to say I started crying. I thought I had moved forward from all of this but 2 months later I am still being reminded of what should have been. Oh and MH response was "it is what it is, there is nothing we can do now". I just cannot wait for this year to be over.

 Thanks for letting me vent! I'm going to try and crawl out of bed and find me some chocolate!

Carolee

Big (((HUGS))).  I'm sorry that tonight is bringing you so many reminders.

kevinandmonica2011

((hugs))... I'm so sorry you are having a rough day.  These things just sneak up out of nowhere and bring us right to our knees, eh?    I'm just so sorry... I hope tomorrow is better.

miblue

I'm so sorry (HUGS!)

The hospital I go through offers financial assistance depending on your income, could you see if they offer something like that and can reduce the bill? I also know some places will offer you a discount if you pay in full.  

jsunflower

*HUGS*

LaTi07

(Hugs). I'm so very sorry! It always feels like just when you think you are getting stronger something comes up that knocks the wind out of your lungs and reminds you just how hurt you really are. 2011 sucks, I've got high hopes for 2012!

HBlevins87

I'm sorry you are having such a rough day. I hope that tomorrow will be better for you. **HUGS**

sweetea929

Oh I am so sorry you are having a rough night. I'm there with you on being ready for a new year already. 

Hope you find that chocolate and you are feeling better soon.

CTumelty

Thanks ladies! I had a good convo with a friend of mine that is going through some struggles herself and we were able to pull each other up. Oh and I did get to have some chocolate chip cookies for dinner.

jobiann

Big hugs to you dear...we all know how hard those "surprise" reminders are. Sounds like a good night to curl up in bed with a really bad movie and some ice cream.

hungryhippo

CTumelty:

Thanks ladies! I had a good convo with a friend of mine that is going through some struggles herself and we were able to pull each other up. Oh and I did get to have some chocolate chip cookies for dinner.

I'm sorry this has been such a rough day. I'm glad you and your friend could help one another out. And I'm really glad about the cookies.

mmacneill

I am so sorry! Awful reminder and what an awful thing for MH to say....some people have NO idea what it's like to go thru this....glad you can vent here. HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSS

orangegoggles

I'm sorry, I did the same thing for a wedding I am in for October

yogiwannabmom

I'm so sorry. I feel like H's dont get it AT all sometimes. Hugs and sorry for your loss.