Hello ladies! I have an 18mo. old and I'm 35wks w my 2nd, just wondering how do you go grocery shopping w 2u2? Is it a total nightmare? I'm pretty worried about taking both babies on outings. My husband works alot and My 1st and I are pretty active and love to go places. Advice please! Thanks!
Re: How do you shop with 2u2?
I left them home with DH as much as possible.
9 PM trips alone to Target or the grocery store became my new definition of "me time"
Actually it's easier with a newborn and a toddler. Wear the baby, toddler in the basket.
It's once they're both mobile that you're in serious trouble.
If you're active and like to get out a lot make sure you've got good equipment for wearing that baby as it helps keep hands free for juggling the toddler.
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Right now it's easy as pie. LO in the infant seat inside the carriage (or ergo), oldest in the shopping cart seat. If I have a big shopping, baby goes in the ergo. If it's not a lot of things, baby goes in the cart in the infant seat, and I store things underneath the cart in that shelf.
I have no issues taking both babies on daily outings alone while DH works. We go everywhere-story time at the library, the zoo, pool, children's museum, etc.
My LO's are 19 months apart and my Dh also works a lot so I understand. It's not a nightmare but it is a hassle...LOL.
First, I always park next to the cart return- added bonus if there is a cart in there so I can strap LO #1 in instead of walking through the parking lot with him. I strap LO#2 into the chest carrier and then get #1 out and put him in the cart. I always carry my list. I usually break up my list between 2 trips. #1 doesn't last that long....LOL. Usually I try and keep my trip under 30 minutes. It's him I need to keep entertained. #2 has always just slept while I'm wearing her. When I'm done I put #2 in the carseat, #1 in his carseat then I unload the groceries into the car.
When I get home I bring the kids in. Put #1 in the highchair with snacks and leave #2 in the carseat while I unload...she's usually asleep or content in there. But I do hurry because it doesn't last long.
I was soooo nervous about grocery shopping but it's really not that bad. Just a lot of work!
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Food shopping - I wear DS (3 months) and bring snacks for DD.
Clothing - I keep it short. I will only do one store like Target and go long enough that we aren't in the car too soon, but not so long that she starts to majorly fuss. I can't enjoy shopping with her so I try to do it at night when DH is home. I can take DS alone with no problems, though.