Has anyone had a VBAC? I hear some pretty good and bad stories. I had a c-section the first time because I had a floating head and started to get higher blood pressure. My doc really has said he will only do it if everything is perfect but that doesn't make me feel very comfortable with it. What are you thoughts??? I also hear many of my friends have said that sex with their partners has hurt for months after a vaginal birth. Conflicted.
Re: VBAC ???
Check out the VBAC board.
As for the sex thing.....it's going to vary by individual. I've even heard some say sex was better cuz things "shifted" for the better! So, I wouldn't use that as a determination, IMO.
Personally, I would want to avoid having major surgery if at all possible.
I had a vaginal delivery with my older son. If we were having a 3rd kid and my dr said I was a good candidate for it, I would go for the VBAC. My recovery was so easy with my vaginal delivery and I didn't even take any pain meds other than a motrin the 1st night so I wouldn't wake up in pain.
And sex was not painful at all afterwards. I was over 2 months postpartum though.