I told exH not to catch any diseases (primarily STDs)

r9stedt

while in Europe for 10 days.   



Gosh.   No wonder he can afford going to Europe for 10days when he only has to pay $118 in child support/month!!

I can't even tell you the last time I spent the night in a hotel...

Whatevs.








I won't deny that I am insanely jealous.  

AggieCouple

@ss. Eta, obv I meant him.

r9stedt

Obviously.


Then he told me his goal was to not get arrested.  Slim chances with the friend he is going with.

Mominator

Ugh. Seriously? That seriously makes me sick, talk about putting yourself before your child. What an ass.

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mlm1128

That totally disgusts me. What are supposed to do with under 30.00 a week? Of course it is more than than the zero per month we get, but at least bm isn't heading to Europe.

MayorMcCheese000

1. I would be a legit Bitter Betty if this were me. Seriously who can afford 10 days in Europe who is only paying $100 a month in child support. Gahhhh

2. AGGIE- that picture OMG it gives me high-grade baby fever! What a gorgeous child, all your kiddos are so adorable!

r9stedt

Well, the CO actually says $133/mo, but after dividing that by how many paychecks he has and then the service charge ***I*** have to pay for having it garnished, it comes out to $118/month.

r9stedt

MayorMcCheese000:

1. I would be a legit Bitter Betty if this were me. Seriously who can afford 10 days in Europe who is only paying $100 a month in child support. Gahhhh

Meh, I'm going to be jealous for right now.  No reason to be a bitter betty.  I could probably afford to go as well if I didn't have a damn wedding to pay for.

But, I wouldn't be able to afford to take off work.  

Damn! 

cooker71

Um, seriously?? How the F&CK does a dumbass douche bag like that afford to go to goddamn Europe when he can't afford to take care of his own f&cking child?

Ima c&ck punch that sack o' sh*t. 

Yodajo

cooker71:

Um, seriously?? How the F&CK does a dumbass douche bag like that afford to go to goddamn Europe when he can't afford to take care of his own f&cking child?

Ima c&ck punch that sack o' sh*t. 

THIS! 

Did he feel the least bit sleazy in admitting to you where he was going (knowing how little he pays you)?

r9stedt

No, he doesn't care.


I did ask him to make sure I had phone numbers available for him incase of an emergency.  

I almost feel obligated to know his flight numbers too.

I did ask him if his life insurance policy is up to date, but I know that his mother is the beneficiary, so L wouldn't see a damn dime of it.  

Whatevs.


I've got an amazing future husband, and am going to have a kick ass wedding.

Yodajo

r9stedt:

No, he doesn't care.



I've got an amazing future husband, and am going to have a kick ass wedding.

YES!

I'm still pissed for you though.  I can't help it.  He's anass.

cooker71

r9stedt:

No, he doesn't care.


I did ask him to make sure I had phone numbers available for him incase of an emergency.  

I almost feel obligated to know his flight numbers too.

I did ask him if his life insurance policy is up to date, but I know that his mother is the beneficiary, so L wouldn't see a damn dime of it.  

Whatevs.


I've got an amazing future husband, and am going to have a kick ass wedding.

And you know what? I'm going to make sure it's highly publicized around the ol' neighborhood out there, along with details of where you and D will be heading afterward to have copious amounts of tropical paradise sex. 

r9stedt

I honestly think that we are to a good point in our relationship/co-parenting... whatever you want to call it... because I am really not that jealous of him.

 

He probably has credit card debt, his credit rating sucks now (he told me so), he is lonely, etc.


Okay, I am jealous that he gets to travel and have that experience.

I am not jealous of how he is going about it. 

I am not jealous that he is going over there just to party it up for Oktoberfest.

I am not jealous of his lifestyle that he leads now.

Just to travel. 

Boy, it has taken me a LONG time to get here!!

cristiana

Those are some effed up priorities on his part.

r9stedt

Over the past 3 months, he has improved.  I think he was catching on that L doesn't want to go to daddy's, etc.

He pays what he is ordered to.  

And that is that.

Nothing above and beyond, but it is still more that lots of kiddos out there in this situation.   So, for that, I am thankful.

r9stedt

But I am still jealous and can't believe that he can freaking afford to go to Europe!


Any bets on whether or not he will have money to pitch in for L's school pictures?!?

cooker71

r9stedt:

But I am still jealous and can't believe that he can freaking afford to go to Europe!


Any bets on whether or not he will have money to pitch in for L's school pictures?!?

Hell he should be fronting the money for a professional shoot if he's that high on the hog, no? (Yes, I threw that country reference in here for you R) 

r9stedt

We have lots more cattle around here than pigs.  Just an FYI.

 

 

 

OMG.  Is it May yet? 

AggieCouple

r9stedt:

Obviously.

I knew YOU knew ;o)

Thanks, Mayor.  It was my failed attempt at this pin: