I know a few of us are tired of hearing about it but i don't really have any questions so maybe it won't be so bad? i'm just throwing myself a pity party. DH can't go because he's working and i'm sad. i now i'm a big girl and can do it all on my own but i really wanted him to be able to go to important ones especially ones where we see the baby. so that's all... i'm just complaining... thanks for reading
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Re: NT scan...
I'll bite
I know everyone is sick of hearing about it, but I am one of the last in line too. I think it sucks just as much for us to be hearing about it when ours was weeks away!
MH is working hourly right now, and I have had one OB appt per week for the last month... He went to all of these b/c they were "emergency" appts for spotting. This is not the time for us to be taking pay cuts so he mentioned maybe not going with me tomorrow. I totally understand and agree if he has important work to do, but it was really disappointing!
I know it was me just being emotional, but I actually got really upset last night and took it as him not caring about seeing LO. I know that is not it at all, but still, it sucks
thanks girls yeah i'm emotional i'm sitting here crying. i'm way emotional these past few days. i told my aunt i was expecting and i started crying.
i could have asked my friend i guess to go with me but i thought i might be getting a pap too because that's one of the appts i have coming up .(i have two today and one next wed) so i didn't want her to see anything. i hate the dr seeing that(so awkward for me) anyways i kinda thought i would be ok going alone but today i realized i can't
BFP #2 7/18/11 - EDD 3/29/12 - Born 3/13/12
BFP #1 4/4/11 - Natural M/C - 7w1d - 4/30/11
DH was going to come until his evil boss essentially told him "BTW, you're fired if you leave early tomorrow." Awesome.
MIL and SIL came with me but neither of them seemed like they cared, maybe I'm just used to my mom cooing over every u/s picture I send her (DH's family are very nice, but they aren't emotional people, not huggy and kissy like my family is).
It just wasn't the same.
Ask your facility if you can video the procedure with your cell phone, it won't be the same, but at least your husband will be able to see the movement!
good idea thanks! my BFF just said she could come with me she kinda works from home so she is flexible so she's meeting me there so at least i will have someone there