FFFC?

dimake

Anybody have any?

achase123

My life is pretty boring but I'll throw in something just for shiits and giggles.

SD texted me and asked me to pick him up a gift for a daughter of his friend who's having a b-day party tomorrow.  I have no time to pick up a gift or do anything since this weekend is crazy and I'm using my lunch hr to study.  I told him to pay me $100 for picking up the gift and I would do it.  He said no and now he's angry-oh what ever will I do?  ::shrugs shoulders::

dimake

My only one is that I thought about lending XH a little money to keep him from getting evicted this month.  Found out this morning he would need almost $500.  And it's likely he would try to hit me up for gas money, too, several times between now and his next paycheck in two weeks.

It's not going to happen.  Not from me, anyway.

achase123

dimake:

My only one is that I thought about lending XH a little money to keep him from getting evicted this month.  Found out this morning he would need almost $500.  And it's likely he would try to hit me up for gas money, too, several times between now and his next paycheck in two weeks.

It's not going to happen.  Not from me, anyway.

Ugh he's STILL pulling that crap with you?  Tell him to ask someone who he didn't cheat on or lie to and he might have a better response.

dimake

achase123:

My life is pretty boring but I'll throw in something just for shiits and giggles.

SD texted me and asked me to pick him up a gift for a daughter of his friend who's having a b-day party tomorrow.  I have no time to pick up a gift or do anything since this weekend is crazy and I'm using my lunch hr to study.  I told him to pay me $100 for picking up the gift and I would do it.  He said no and now he's angry-oh what ever will I do?  ::shrugs shoulders::

First thing I thought - "What is he smoking?" 

dimake

achase123:

Ugh he's STILL pulling that crap with you?  Tell him to ask someone who he didn't cheat on or lie to and he might have a better response.

At least he knows better than to get pissed off about it, lol.  I didn't get much child support this week because he was away at army training and they don't garnish from those checks, my whole paycheck next week will go to my mortgage, I won't get child support again for two weeks, and he won't get paid again for two weeks.  

dimake

Also, I haven't really talked to anybody in my family very much over the past month.  My mom told me after the whole vacation thing (where I wanted to go out of town with my kids and my mom flipped out) that she feels like she's been raising my kids (because she babysat 2-3 days during the week) and I'm keeping them away from her out of spite over the vacation blow-up.

Now I am using a paid DCP when XH and I both work.  It's a hell of a lot more convenient location-wise, and I don't have to worry that someone else is trying to "mother" my children. 

I don't feel guilty because my daughter said, the other day "You're not my mother.  Grandma is."  (and she said grandma told her that)  My kids hadn't even mentioned her much over the past month, but after seeing her at a family party this weekend my daughter comes up with this all by herself?

PrincessFiona9

dimake:

Also, I haven't really talked to anybody in my family very much over the past month.  My mom told me after the whole vacation thing (where I wanted to go out of town with my kids and my mom flipped out) that she feels like she's been raising my kids (because she babysat 2-3 days during the week) and I'm keeping them away from her out of spite over the vacation blow-up.

Now I am using a paid DCP when XH and I both work.  It's a hell of a lot more convenient location-wise, and I don't have to worry that someone else is trying to "mother" my children. 

I don't feel guilty because my daughter said, the other day "You're not my mother.  Grandma is."  (and she said grandma told her that)  My kids hadn't even mentioned her much over the past month, but after seeing her at a family party this weekend my daughter comes up with this all by herself?

WTFFFF???? I would go BSC! Yes, I would definitely be limiting my kid's time with Grandma.

PrincessFiona9

dimake:

Also, I haven't really talked to anybody in my family very much over the past month.  My mom told me after the whole vacation thing (where I wanted to go out of town with my kids and my mom flipped out) that she feels like she's been raising my kids (because she babysat 2-3 days during the week) and I'm keeping them away from her out of spite over the vacation blow-up.

Now I am using a paid DCP when XH and I both work.  It's a hell of a lot more convenient location-wise, and I don't have to worry that someone else is trying to "mother" my children. 

I don't feel guilty because my daughter said, the other day "You're not my mother.  Grandma is."  (and she said grandma told her that)  My kids hadn't even mentioned her much over the past month, but after seeing her at a family party this weekend my daughter comes up with this all by herself?

WTFFFF???? I would go BSC! Yes, I would definitely be limiting my kid's time with Grandma.

PrincessFiona9

I guess I have a FFFC now, although it's a little late.

SO has been sleeping all day because he doesn't feel good. He had been acting shady about why he was still friends with his exgf on FB, so I did a very bad thing. I snooped through his phone, and read the messages on his FB. There weren't any recent ones, but there were ones from the beginning of our relationship where he was trying to get back with her. I am fuming right now. Me and him were together, but he was emailing her saying "I love you, I wanna marry you and have a family" blah blah blah.

UnderAtree

dimake:

Also, I haven't really talked to anybody in my family very much over the past month.  My mom told me after the whole vacation thing (where I wanted to go out of town with my kids and my mom flipped out) that she feels like she's been raising my kids (because she babysat 2-3 days during the week) and I'm keeping them away from her out of spite over the vacation blow-up.

Now I am using a paid DCP when XH and I both work.  It's a hell of a lot more convenient location-wise, and I don't have to worry that someone else is trying to "mother" my children. 

I don't feel guilty because my daughter said, the other day "You're not my mother.  Grandma is."  (and she said grandma told her that)  My kids hadn't even mentioned her much over the past month, but after seeing her at a family party this weekend my daughter comes up with this all by herself?

This is what I fear after DS spends his first night over his dads. A few weeks ago I was being night and letting him bring his mom on one of his visits. She only speaks spanish and I understand more then what I can speak. Well she walked right up to my son and told him "I'm your mom."

I wanted to slap a b!tch.