you were going to be able to have a Vbac? I had my 37 week apt which my dr told me would be the day we decide if im going to have to schedule a rcs or if the baby was low enough that it looked promising. (had first cs after 12 hr labor 10 cm dil. but baby wouldnt come down with pushing) today when I went he said "she is still 'high-ish' " still completely closed up even though to me the baby feels so low and is sitting on my bladder. Next monday i go back and he said hes guessing im going to be in the same boat but if im 2 cm then there is a chance otherwise ill probably have to have a rcs..or i can wait another week to see if the baby lowers. Im curious as to when your dr knew it was possible?!? Im feeling a little like a failure;(
Re: when did your Ob decide...
I was told before I was discharged from my c/s that there was no reason to think I would need another c/s, and I never heard anything different.
Since it's normal for 2nd babies not to drop until labor starts, I'm not sure why being "high-ish" at 37 weeks would indicate anything meaningful.
I would go a step further and find a new provider. Your OB sounds like they are setting you up for RCS. There's most likely a local ICAN group near you, you could contact them and see if they have any suggestions of more VBAC-friendly providers in your area.
When I got pg with my second son, I told my MW I wanted a VBAC and she supported that for my whole pregnancy. At no point did we have a talk about whether I was going to attempt one, or if the baby was in a good position or low enough. Good luck!!
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)
My OB did not decide, I decided. I decided right after my first c/s that I would be having a VBAC with all future births and I did everything I knew how to make that happen. Including letting my body go into labor naturally and do what it knew how to do.
Your OB cannot force you into a RCS. They can present information and opinions on why they think you should havea RCS but if you want to go for your VBAC that is your decision.
I'm glad he has a good reputation and high success rate. If we seem negative, it's because we see a lot of women here get strung along by doctors who claim to be supportive, but then give them a spurious reason last minute why they need to schedule a RCS. Hopefully that is not the case for you.
GL!
At my 5 week pp appointment, my ob told me he wouldn't even consider a rcs, unless the next baby was breech or something.
Hmmm, that's a really high success rate. Here's what I'm thinking....your OB discourages women whose babies are not ready to fall out. So, his VBAC attempt rate would be low....but success rate would be high. Sorry, I'm the suspicious type and have no faith in the medical community at all.
I'm not even pg yet and we've already decided on a VBAC. You really don't have much more information at 37 weeks, then you do at 0 weeks. The only thing you might know is that the baby is breech, maybe you have placenta issue or some other health concern. But progress at 37 weeks means nothing. You can go from 0 to 10 in a few hours.
If you want a VBAC, then I would stick to your guns.
I'm suspicious too cchill. Even a homebirth midwife would see lower odds than that.
To the OP. If you want a VBAC, then go for it. There is no way of predicting what will happen, certainly not at 37 weeks. For now you should go ahead and try for a VBAC. If you go into labor and things seem like they are not progressing, then go for the RCS.