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Should I be bothered?

inlove731inlove731
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Hey ladies...I am wondering how you all would feel about this situation...

I got on my email just a bit ago and had an email from a friend of a friend (we'll call the emailer C).  C is throwing a shower for my friend, W.  She said she was excited to see me and asked if my mom was coming.  Cool.  No problem.  Then, she told me that her and her husband were going to a support group and thought my husband and I would be interested.  She gave me the info. 

Super sweet of C to give me info and invite me.  BUT, I told W about all of our struggles in confidence.  I asked her to keep it to herself.  I am much more open about it now, but I still feel it is our story to share.  Not someone else's.  I know W didn't tell C to be mean or gossipy, she was trying to help C, but I asked her to NOT tell anyone.  If W would have asked me if she could tell C, or asked me to talk to C, I would have said yes, but she did it without asking.  Am I being ridiculous that this bothers me??

Stopped BCPs December 2008 TTC since June 2009 6 unsuccessful Clomid cycles Dx Annovulatory due to PCOS January 2010 DH-perfect 4 unsuccessful IUIs Began Lupron July 7 for first IVF IVF cancelled; overstimulation and coasting lead to huge drop in E2 New testing with an Endocrinologist...perhaps a new diagnosis... So, not PCOS but Hashimoto's Thyroiditis November 2010 After a looong break, started seeing a new RE. Gearing up for IVF 1.2. Beta 1=197!! BabyFruit Ticker image
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  • lmc5004lmc5004
    You are not being ridiculous. If you asked her to not tell anyone that she should not have. If you have not expressed to her that you are super open about it then she has no room to talk. If you wanted to share she could have said "I know someone else dealing will similar issues, it can be really hard" and not given away your identity.
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  • inlove731inlove731
    Thanks!  I don't feel quite as crazy now :).
    Stopped BCPs December 2008 TTC since June 2009 6 unsuccessful Clomid cycles Dx Annovulatory due to PCOS January 2010 DH-perfect 4 unsuccessful IUIs Began Lupron July 7 for first IVF IVF cancelled; overstimulation and coasting lead to huge drop in E2 New testing with an Endocrinologist...perhaps a new diagnosis... So, not PCOS but Hashimoto's Thyroiditis November 2010 After a looong break, started seeing a new RE. Gearing up for IVF 1.2. Beta 1=197!! BabyFruit Ticker image
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