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Another loss, feeling like I will never have a successful pregnancy

Holly325Holly325 member
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I just found out today my pregnancy is abnormal. I have to have a D&C tomorrow morning. They have to test the tissue to see if it was ectopic or not. This is my 3rd loss. I am also O negative. I just feel like a freak of nature and like I will never have a baby. Has anyone else had this many losses and end up having a baby? I am just so depressed. No one should ever have to go through this. Especially more than once.
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    Pepperage Pepperage

    I am so sorry. And, you're right.... no one should go through this.

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    orangegogglesorangegoggles member
    I'm so sorry for your losses :(
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    erinfionaerinfiona
    I am so sorry for your losses.  Sending hugs and support your way.
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    nicki070810nicki070810
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Have faith that one day you will have a LO! My MIL had 3 consecutive miscarriages and ended up with 2 healthy LO's afterwards.
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    GracieBlueGracieBlue member
    I am so sorry you are going through this.
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    wendyssmithwendyssmith member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. My aunt had 2 miscarriages and then had 4 children after. Don't give up hope.
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    lkwelterlkwelter member
    I am so sorry for your losses!  I just went through my 2nd loss and it's so sad to think that this could keep happening.  I have an appointment in 3 weeks for some testing.  Can you keep me posted on what you find out.  I think the hardest thing for me right now is that I don't know anyone that has been through something similar.  All of my friends or family members that have had a m/c have only had one and went on to have perfectly normal pregnancies and healthy babies.  Now that I'm going through this again they're not really sure what to say to me since they have no idea what I'm going through.  I thought for sure that I would be fine the 2nd time around but that just wasn't the case.
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    LisAndMikeyLisAndMikey member

    So sorry to hear you are going through another loss.  I have lost all 5 of my pregnancies and am currently pregnant again.  I don't have many friends that have experienced a loss let alone this many.  I feel like I've been living under a dark cloud for years now..so isolated and depressed.  Even with this current pregnancy I can't allow myself to be excited as I've learned so many times in the past that it so easily is taken away.

    At the same time, I know that we won't have a baby if we don't keep trying and holding onto the last shred of hope is the only way we've been able to continue on this journey.

    I hope sooner than later you are holding your rainbow baby in your arms.  I hope this for all of us here. 

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    Holly325Holly325 member
    Thank you everyone for all the T&P's. llkwelter and lisa I inbox messaged you to answer and ask you some questions. Thanks again
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    LisAndMikeyLisAndMikey member
    Holly, I replied to your message.
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    BFP #3 6/9/09 M/C 4w4days
    BFP #4 6/22/10 M/C 8w
    Sept. 2010 DH Dx: chromosomal balanced translocation (4,10){q21,p15}
    BFP #5 5/12/11 M/C 7w1days
    BFP #6 8/6/11 Gavin Knox born 4/12/12!
    BFP #7 10/1/2013 still birth @ 28 weeks following a UBT girl diagnosis
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