I am planning to discuss my birth plan with my OB today during my appointment. One thing I didn't think about including was whether I want a shot of pitocin and/or the nurse to "massage" my uturus by rubbing my belly after the baby is born. With the pitocin, I think I'd prefer to go without unless it is necessary. Can you ladies help me with the pros/cons of the massage? From what I've heard it sounds kind of painful. I feel like it may be unnecessary since I plan to nurse right away, which is supposed to help the uterus contract.