Hi everyone. My name is Julie and I am in the early stages of going through a divorce with STBXH of 7 years (together for 14). We have a wonderful daughter who is 19 months old. He has never been abusive, is a responsible parent, not on drugs and doesn't drink so those are the positives. He's says we've grown apart and have different goals. I don't have any reason to think he's been cheating but who knows. He does go out of town often and says he's going for "business". I don't know what to believe anymore. This is all so hard. I'm sorry I'm here but it looks like you ladies are a great source of support. I have a great support system and we will have joint custody of A which I think is the best situation for her. Just wanted to introduce myself.