Snarky and T-TTC
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Things not to say
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We all know that phrase "at least you know you can get pregnant" is the worst. But I will go out on a limb and say that it might not be as offensive if this was a pregnancy and miscarriage after 6 months of trying.
3 years, 42 cycles, and three IVF's does not make me feel better about our chances for success in the future. However, now that I've tasted success, I am more likely to try again. More likely than I was two months ago.
I am also three glasses of wine in. Consider me buzzed.
Heh. Maybe cycle #69 will be the winner!
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Re: Things not to say
IVF with ICSI #1: BFP
TESE for DH 08/09/09
ER 08/09/09; ET 08/14/09; Beta #1 08/23/09: 150; Beta #2 08/25/09: 267
TTC #2: FET #1: BFP
ET 06/16/11; Beta #1 06/25/11: 282; Beta #2 06/27/11: 777
First u/s: Twins! Baby A stopped growing @ 9 weeks, forever in our hearts
TTC #3: FET #2: c/p lost at 4 weeks
Im thinking of you and your H.
xo
TTC #2 since June '08
~*DD 10.21.07*~
dx unexplained
IUI #1-4 BFN
IVF#1 June 2011 BFN
IVF#2 Dec 2011
Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634
EDD 8/25
*PAIFW/SAIFW*
Chart/Blog
Nothing breeds faster than Crazy
most men (other than our DH's) just don't get it, I'm sure. Of course he probably meant well, but I get that doesn't make the sting any less. You drink you wine girl. HUGS
TTC#1 Chart
TTC#2 Chart
IUI #1 - #4 (repronex trigger) = BFN
IUI#5 on 10/28/2008 ** BFP 11/10/08 ** EDD 07/21/09 *** It's a GIRL (07/14/09)
med/treatment free BFP 06/28/10. EDD 03/05/11 *** GIRL #2 (02/23/11)
beta#1 @ 17dpo = 1296 .... beta#2 @ 19dpo = 3034
it's the Bug and Baby Belle!
I really, really wish that when people didn't know what to say, they saved the stupid comments and just said a simple I love you, or I'm thinking about you.
Please feel free to have the whole bottle.
I did. And now I'm going for a nap.
Chart/Blog
Nothing breeds faster than Crazy
Dx with endo & blocked left tube - TTC #1 for 29 cycles before miracle BFP, #2 - Surprise!!
My TTC/PG blog / Panda Phenomenon Explained
After 22 cycles and tube removal our IVF miracle has arrived! Detailed IF and IVF info in bio.
Happily Wed DH in May 2010
June 2012: DD#1 born after countless fertility cycles, our 4 year old miracle
TTC #2: current cycle: 225iu Menopur for 4 weeks, Ovidrel Trigger= BFP! Beta #1; 333, Beta #2 713! 1st u/s showed TWINS (7/18)
I usually lurk these boards, but everyone and their mom told me this when my husband and I were TTC. It made me want to carry around a glass of something to slosh in their face, hah. Cheers! :-(
Aquarian Mommmy Blog
It's true. People are going to say some really stupid sh&t when it comes to this. They are basically clueless what to say but don't realize that sometimes nothing but an "I am sorry" is all you want to hear. I couldn't talk to people for at least a week cause I didn't want to hear all the cliche stuff I knew I would hear.