We all know that phrase "at least you know you can get pregnant" is the worst. But I will go out on a limb and say that it might not be as offensive if this was a pregnancy and miscarriage after 6 months of trying.
3 years, 42 cycles, and three IVF's does not make me feel better about our chances for success in the future. However, now that I've tasted success, I am more likely to try again. More likely than I was two months ago.
I am also three glasses of wine in. Consider me buzzed.
Heh. Maybe cycle #69 will be the winner!