TTC after 35

I'm new. Introduction

Good morning, everyone! I've been lurking a little bit, and I am thrilled to find a board with so much great information and support. I wanted to venture on to post an introduction.

First of all, my DH and I are blessed to have a son. He will be 2 in November. We always thought that we were so lucky to have DS (under the wire, as DH liked to say) when I was 40. We always thought that we were one and done because of my age. Now we are not so sure. We talked about it, and decided that we would go ahead and give it a try even though the odds are lower for conception than they were when I got pregnant at 39. I've read the stats, and I think we are going into this with our eyes open. I am 42 years old now.

I have an appointment to get out my IUD on Tuesday. DH and I have made a decision that we will only TTC without the aid of medical intervention.

I am nervous, but I think it is the right thing for us because I know I would always wonder "what if we had just tried?.." Regardless of the outcome, this way, we will know.

I plan to do the same thing we did when we conceived DS. Chart temp, Clear Blue Easy Fertility Monitor, and good nutrition. It took us 6 months to conceive DS. I am well aware that it is a different ballgame for us now.  

I look forward to getting to know you all, to reading your stories, learning from you, offering support, and hopefully reading about your BFPs and your graduation to the Pregnant after 35 board. 

Married 4/12/08 DS born 11/17/2009 via c-section at 39 weeks. 11/12/2011 BFP #2!! m/c 7w5d. 2/28/2012 BFP #3 Beta #1-12dpo = 18; Beta #2-16dpo = 185; Beta #3-18dpo = 505. EDD 11/10/2012. Ectopic discovered at 5w4d. D&C followed by methotrexate.

Re: I'm new. Introduction

  • Welcome!  There are other over-40s on here too, so you're in good company.  I'm only 37, but have the ovaries of a 40-41 yr old!  Good luck with TTC! 


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  • Welcome and good luck.
    BFP on IVF #2 6/29/2012. Beta #1 7/3 = 522; Beta #2 = 1180; Beta #3 = 6491 image BabyFruit Ticker
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  • Hi and Welcome! 
    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
  • Welcome and gl on the ttc trip :)
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    TTC #1 since 5/10
    BFP #1 7/22/11 - EDD 4/2/11 - M/C 8/15/11 (7w0d)
    BFP #2 9/23/11 - EDD 6/5/12 ♥It's a Girl♥
    BFP #3 2/20/13 - EDD 11/2/13 ♥It's a Girl♥
  • Welcome to the board.

    IVF #1 ET 1 d3 embryo 10/30/11 BFP
    3 Embryos frozen (1 d5, 2 d6)

    DS born 07/29/12

    FET #1 ET 1 d5 embryo 02/10/15 BFN

    FET #2 1 d6 embryo didn't survive thaw, transferred last d6. CP :(

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  • Welcome and good luck! Smile
    Married September 2010, ttc since August 2010. So far - nothing
    Me: 40, Husband: 33
    After an emergency D&C on Nov 8, 2011, we are giving up hope of ever becoming pregnant.
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  • Welcome! I hope your TTC process is quick and happy!
    ttc since 2/2010 ~
    me (36): Hypothyroid (on Levothroid), low vit. d, borderline/high fsh (day 3: between 7-10) (day 10: 13 during CCCT), AFC: 14
    dh (31): awesome (minus one sample with agglutination)
    Diagnosis:possible DOR and/or unexplained + elevated NK cells + MTHFR (C677T - one copy)

    MAY 2011 - FEB 2012 - 3 injectable IUI's with numerous cancellations due to high TSH levels
    MAY 2012 - onto IVF/ICSI (Antagonist Protocol) on BCP and Folgard (3 week delay - cyst - boooo) 5/21 start stims 5/30 ER 11R 8M 3F 6/2 3DT of 3 6/12 Beta #1 83 | 6/14 Beta #2 196 | 6/21 Beta #3 3818 | 6/28 Beta #4 22,213 | 7/2 1st U/S - 2 on board! 8/24 CVS reveals that we have a boy AND a girl on board!

    Healthy baby boy and girl born in February, 2013 at 38 weeks and 2 days!


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  • Thanks for the welcome!
    Married 4/12/08 DS born 11/17/2009 via c-section at 39 weeks. 11/12/2011 BFP #2!! m/c 7w5d. 2/28/2012 BFP #3 Beta #1-12dpo = 18; Beta #2-16dpo = 185; Beta #3-18dpo = 505. EDD 11/10/2012. Ectopic discovered at 5w4d. D&C followed by methotrexate.
  • Welcome - - I hope your stay here is a short one! 
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  • Hello and welcome to the board!
  • Welcome!  I am one of those over 40's who is still giving it a go.  Wishing you lots of luck.
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  • Welcome and good luck to you. I hope your stay here is short.
    TTC #1 since 2/10 Me 38 FSH 12.9 & AMH 0.16 DH 47, low sperm count due to meds. 07/11 We have sperm! 28 million, 70% motility, morphology 1% normal. 08/14/11 1st IUI unmedicated BFN. 09/11/11 2nd IUI w/ Femara + trigger BFN 10/14/11 trigger & Final IUI 10/16/11 BFN 10/21/11 Started acupuncture and loving it! 01/21 ET one embryo 6 cell grade C. Beta 02/02. BFN. Taking a much needed break. image
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