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How do you handle it?

kkennerkkenner
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How do you handle it when your ex tries to have a say in your business? We share 50/50 custody of our DD.. I have friends who think I should change my number or block him. I'm just not really sure what to do. We've been legally divorced for almost a month..yet he still wants a say in who I see, what I do, where I live...etc. I'm kind of a loss right now. It's really frustrating to feel like I have to constantly look over my shoulder.
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  • kkennerkkenner
    How about housing? He found out that I may be moving closer to his mom's (we get along great...thank goodness) and he made it clear he was not happy.
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    Thanks mama!
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    Oh heyyyyy pretty mama!

    So I handle it by ignoring anything and everything that doesn't have a direct reference to P.  I think that based on what I have seen C is FAR to involved in your life.  He shouldn't have a clue about anything that is going on with you beyond anything that is J related.  he doesn't need to know where you are going, what you are doing, or whom you are doing it with.  Period.

    I resorted to blocking D's number awhile ago but now that we have a visitation agreement I can no longer do that.  He has tried texting me numerous times asking how my day is going, saying good morning, etc.  I ignore, ignore, ignore.  The only correspondence we have is about what time and what day he is having his visits.  It's been a long road getting there but I'm finally to the point where I can make the CHOICE to not let him into my life any more than he needs to be.

    Just remember: it's a business arrangement.  You are co-parenting together but you owe him nothing more. 

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  • sweetie0228sweetie0228 member
    Hang up the phone you are not in a relationship with him anymore.
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  • htomeohtomeo member
    He can be unhappy all he wants about it K, but it still doesn't change the fact that you have no legal or moral obligation to him. You don't answer to him anymore. What a douchenozzle.
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