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T&P if I could? :(

imageLast night was probably the most nerve wrecking night I've ever been through.  I have heard since we started TTC that spotting is somewhat normal, pink and brown is usually ok, not so much if its red.  Last time the day before my surgery for our ectopic, I spotted barely red, and only enough to get on the TP at first.  Last night I was at work and I felt just one REALLY uncomfortable cramp.  If felt like midway through AF when I am miserable.  I paniced the whole way to the bathroom, and when I got there, there was DARK red(not brown, the NP asked me that, I mean Ruby red) in my underwear, and about enough when I wiped to be AF.  I called DH and he drove me to the ER. 

After being there for over 4 hours, having a pelvic exam, ultrasound, checking my beta's again and doing a ua they sent me home.  My betas were 1900 (8 days since my last at 267?  I checked online and I think its fairly normal?) and they still couldn't see anything on U/s.  I called RE today like they told me to and I have to go back in on Thursday for repeat betas just to see what we are looking at.  When I had my ectopic, my 2nd beta was at 250, when they pulled it again 5 days later it was only at 375 so I feel a BIT better about this one, and the spotting has stopped (for now).  Even last night right before we left the ER it was only brown discharge I was having by that point.

So if I could be so bold as to ask for it, I know I haven't been really active yet due to being busy at work, but I could really use some T&P for the next few days.  I just really want the spotting to stay away and have a good blood draw on Thursday.  Thank you Ladies in advance...you guys are awesome.  Have some carmel chocolate brownies on me.

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TTC since June 2009 DX: PCOS October 2010
6 medicated cycles, 2 pregnancies, 1 ectopic April 2011, Early Miscarriage August 2011
7 more cycles, 1 IUI, No success after last pregnancy
7/1/2012 No more fertility coverage
8/17/2012 started pursuing domestic infant adoption!
11/26/2012 HOME STUDY APPROVED!!!
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Re: T&P if I could? :(

  • So sorry you are going through this. T&Ps that this time turns out differently. The higher betas are a good sign!
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  • Sending you some T&P's. Hopefully, it's nothing serious.
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  • Thoughts and prayers to you and your LO.

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  • Definitely sending T&P your way.
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  • T&Ps headed your way.  That is good that your betas are rising accordingly (and hopefully will continue to) and FWIW I had an ultrasound done at 5w4d (measuring 5w2d) and they only saw the gestational sac.  GL with your next round of betas and ultrasound and please keep us updated.

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  • Sending T&P's over.
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  • I'm sorry this is happening. It really is stressful. I'm sending positive vibes your way. They always say here to drink a lot of water and rest when you can.
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  • T&P's your way that everything is okay. I'm sorry your going through this, being pgal is hard enough without that stuff happening.

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  • Bleeding is always scary! T&P your way with loads of doubling and sticky baby dust!
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  • From one Allie to another, you definitely have my T&P's. Hoping for some good news for you and for the spotting to stop quickly.
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  • Many thoughts and prayers with you!  Hang in there!
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  • Sending T&P your way and hoping you get good news soon! Hug!
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  • ((hugs)) I'm so sorry you are going through this! Sending lots of T&Ps your way that everything is okay. 
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  • Sending T&P's your way!! Praying everything turns out ok!!
  • Lots of t&ps coming your way!!
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  • I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers. ((hugs)) I am sorry you are going through this. 
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  • T&Ps your next draw is great! It sounds like it's too early to see anything on u/s. I do remember my OBs saying that you won't see anything until like 3,000. Don't quote me on the exact number, but I remember it was higher than 1,900. GL!
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  • SO sorry that you're having to go through this! many T&p's coming your way.
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  • Sending you a big hug!!
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  • You'll definitely have my T&Ps!
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  • I'm sorry you are dealing with all of this. I really hope the spotting is nothing. T&P's headed your way. HUGS
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  • Hope everything is okay!  It's possible maybe you had a cyst that burst...since you had that pain and then noticed the bleeding right after.  Just a thought, but there are happy endings with pg that have bleeding in the beginning--just remember that!
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  • Tons of t&p for you
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  • imageluvmyducks:
    Hope everything is okay!  It's possible maybe you had a cyst that burst...since you had that pain and then noticed the bleeding right after.  Just a thought, but there are happy endings with pg that have bleeding in the beginning--just remember that!

    Thank you for this!  This actually makes me feel a little bit more comfy.  Since we have been TTC with the RE, we have had to stop every few months because of cysts.  I don't know if I have experienced one rupturing because they always put me on BCP to suppress them.  They said they found a cyst smaller then I normally get.  Maybe it was a just ruptured one?  They also removed a medium sized clot on during my pelvic exam, and the spotting stopped right after that.  I hope that's it, but maybe I'm being overly helpful?

    TTC since June 2009 DX: PCOS October 2010
    6 medicated cycles, 2 pregnancies, 1 ectopic April 2011, Early Miscarriage August 2011
    7 more cycles, 1 IUI, No success after last pregnancy
    7/1/2012 No more fertility coverage
    8/17/2012 started pursuing domestic infant adoption!
    11/26/2012 HOME STUDY APPROVED!!!
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  • You will be in my t&p.
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  • *hugs* I hope it all turns out alright. I'm thinking of you.
  • Sending T&P!
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  • Lots and lots of good juju headed your way!  I am so sorry you're going through this right now - you deserve a nice, boring pregnancy!  ((HUGS))

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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Sending tons of T&P's that LO is ok.
  • Sending lots of T&Ps that everything is fine with LO and your next draws come back great.  Please keep us updated.  
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  • I'm so sorry. I hope everything works out!
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  • Lots of good thoughts coming your way!  Hope your next blood draw continues to show rising betas!!
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  • Im sorry thoughts and prayers coming your way.
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this, hon.  It is so scary.  Praying for you that everything is ok!

     

     

  • Sending lots of T&Ps your way.  
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  • T&P are with you. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this stress :(

     

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  • T&P's to you! I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm having almost identical symptoms-the red bleeding, even had a small clot in the toliet earlier. It comes and goes and is so weird! I'm just hoping and praying everything will work out this time around (btw I'm 4w3d).
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  • ((hugs))!!  Hang in there!
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