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S/O # of partners- how many do you regret?

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  • I regret one of my 2 because the guy was a total cheating A-hole!
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  • Two of them.
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  • All of them. Except my first and DH. Althoughech one of them taught me about myself and got me where I am, they all kind of sucked in their own special way ;)
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  • none, they were my choice and what if I didn't, would I still be with my H? As many A-holes and bad choices I made they made me who I am and led me to this day!
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  • I regret 3 of them. 
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  • imagekrissyh21:
    All of them. Except my first and DH. Althoughech one of them taught me about myself and got me where I am, they all kind of sucked in their own special way ;)

    Kind of this, I don't really "regret" because it did make me "ME" but there was only "specialness" with my first and DH.

     

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  • imageMrs.Babbsy:
    none, they were my choice and what if I didn't, would I still be with my H? As many A-holes and bad choices I made they made me who I am and led me to this day!

    Ditto this 100%.

    I was having fun and had realistic expectations.

    I learned something from every person I had a relationship with and am thankful for the path that made me who I am today (including IF).

    The one nighters?

    The only one I might consider regretting was the one guy who sucked in bed worse than I thought possible.  Even that was a learning lesson though. 

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    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
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  • imageMrs.Babbsy:
    none, they were my choice and what if I didn't, would I still be with my H? As many A-holes and bad choices I made they made me who I am and led me to this day!

    This.

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    imageMrs.Babbsy:
    none, they were my choice and what if I didn't, would I still be with my H? As many A-holes and bad choices I made they made me who I am and led me to this day!

    Ditto this 100%.

    I was having fun and had realistic expectations.

    I learned something from every person I had a relationship with and am thankful for the path that made me who I am today (including IF).

    The one nighters?

    The only one I might consider regretting was the one guy who sucked in bed worse than I thought possible.  Even that was a learning lesson though. 

    OMG YES!!!! I still to this day run into him and can't remember his name because I nicknamed him the "jack rabbit" Holy hell bad, very very bad. I even got up in the middle and left. Got up, got dresssed and walked the shame to my car. I just couldn't even fake it.

     

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  • imageMrs.Babbsy:
    none, they were my choice and what if I didn't, would I still be with my H? As many A-holes and bad choices I made they made me who I am and led me to this day!

    Yeah, this pretty much sums it up for me too!

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    OMG YES!!!! I still to this day run into him and can't remember his name because I nicknamed him the "jack rabbit" Holy hell bad, very very bad. I even got up in the middle and left. Got up, got dresssed and walked the shame to my car. I just couldn't even fake it.

     

     

    LMFAO!!  "jack rabbit"

    I have a similar story!

    I dated a guy with the same name as my brother.  (that was mistake #1 because it was just too weird)

    When it came time for the big unveiling it was seriously the size of my pinky finger.  I'm a very petite girl and sometimes I had problems in the "too big" direction but this was my first "is that a worm or your diick?" experience!

    Even before the big reveal he wasn't doing it for me so I made an excuse and left.

    Guess he doesn't count as one of the DTD guys, huh?

     

    And I'll admit that as a mother to boys I have prayed that they be spared tiny diick syndrome.  I feel so bad for any guy who's cursed with an abnormally small member (but not bad enough to give 'em some apparently). 

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  • OMG Love that story! I have one like that too, I asked him when he was going to get hard and he said it was.... ha, I held in giggles and faked it.

     

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  • Thank God as a 30th birthday present I was given somewhat of a filter or maybe it's because I don't drink as much now... hmmmm Life's mystery!

    Howley I wish you lived by me now. I have a feeling we could share some good stories, I have a lot of funny ones!

     

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  • imageLisaandBryan:
    Most of them!!!
    That's what I was going to say
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  • 2.  one was way, way, way too small...the other had trouble keeping it up (due to a comment i made about his "magnum" size condoms being too big...oops.  hey, i was looking out for my own well-being!).
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  • I regret everyone but my DH.  I am a TOTALLY different person than I used to be, thank God.

     

  • imageMrs.Babbsy:
    none, they were my choice and what if I didn't, would I still be with my H? As many A-holes and bad choices I made they made me who I am and led me to this day!

     

    Yup THIS! 

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  • 1 - I barely knew him. I guess I was trying to "impress" him or something. I regretted it immediately though, made him stop in the middle and leave.
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