Achase... This call out is for you!

lurkylulu2

Your FFFC is just ridiculous. While I agree your baby daddy should be sending the child support money through the correct avenues, you do not get a free pass to be a liar just because he didn't. If you lie about receiving that money, you are even more of a douchenozzle than I thought.  

PrettyInPearls23

Who said she's going to lie about it? She's giving him receipts -- it's not her fault DB is so stupid he can't even understand that he needs to be paying CS through the state.

Ariana2O11

You're blaming achase for her xh's stupidity? Besides, you don't know what she will do or how it will be handled if an issue arises. Why jump the gun?

jmepurple

Why are you such an idiot?  Really?  Where in her post did she say she was going to lie to the state?  There is an even bigger Douchenozzle that posts on the SP board regularly and it isn't Achase....or LFJ for that matter...it happens to be you.  Pathetic really that you have nothing better to do then sit around and try to cyber bully....and single parents non the less....

brandnewmommy103

jmepurple:

Why are you such an idiot?  Really?  Where in her post did she say she was going to lie to the state?  There is an even bigger Douchenozzle that posts on the SP board regularly and it isn't Achase....or LFJ for that matter...it happens to be you.  Pathetic really that you have nothing better to do then sit around and try to cyber bully....and single parents non the less....

shes not an idiot, she just has such a happy life that she has to escape into other peoples business as a distraction. its just so old already. why should this board be terrorized by someone with nothing good going on in their lives? i feel bad for her, its just sad.

lilhotcandie69

I think your overreacting and jumping the gun. Its not her fault he's an idiot.

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lurkylulu2

brandnewmommy103:

jmepurple:

Why are you such an idiot?  Really?  Where in her post did she say she was going to lie to the state?  There is an even bigger Douchenozzle that posts on the SP board regularly and it isn't Achase....or LFJ for that matter...it happens to be you.  Pathetic really that you have nothing better to do then sit around and try to cyber bully....and single parents non the less....

shes not an idiot, she just has such a happy life that she has to escape into other peoples business as a distraction. its just so old already. why should this board be terrorized by someone with nothing good going on in their lives? i feel bad for her, its just sad.

I know this is really hard for some of you jaded women to believe, but I am incredibly happy with my life. I have an amazing husband, a healthy, beautiful daughter, a job that I love, etc. Just because I think someone is an idiot doesn't automatically mean I hate my life. That line is old and worn out.

lurkylulu2

beccaga16:

She is not going to lie. What achase was saying that if he is not smart enough to go through the child support agency, even after being told by her and the courts on several occasions, she is not going to go out of her way to remind him. By paying her directly his payments may not count. Her giving him receipts and admitting to the payments in court may not matter. There have been several cases where a parent admits to direct payments and provides proof, but the fact that the person paying doesn't follow the courts direction to pay the CS agency... Well, it means the payments don't count. I am rambling, but in short, she is not lying. She is just leaving it up to her X to make his payments in the correct manner.. And he is failing.

If this is the case, then I get that. However, her post made it sound like she was going to act like he wasn't paying her. I agree 100% that her ex needs to go about paying it the correct way, but she should be thankful she's getting the payments and if they go to court, she should be honest that she received them. Her post made it sound like she wasn't sure she was going to do that.

jmepurple

lurkylulu2:

brandnewmommy103:

jmepurple:

Why are you such an idiot?  Really?  Where in her post did she say she was going to lie to the state?  There is an even bigger Douchenozzle that posts on the SP board regularly and it isn't Achase....or LFJ for that matter...it happens to be you.  Pathetic really that you have nothing better to do then sit around and try to cyber bully....and single parents non the less....

shes not an idiot, she just has such a happy life that she has to escape into other peoples business as a distraction. its just so old already. why should this board be terrorized by someone with nothing good going on in their lives? i feel bad for her, its just sad.

I know this is really hard for some of you jaded women to believe, but I am incredibly happy with my life. I have an amazing husband, a healthy, beautiful daughter, a job that I love, etc. Just because I think someone is an idiot doesn't automatically mean I hate my life. That line is old and worn out.

 

And those who boast about how wonderful their life is....are the ones who lives really suck.   

lurkylulu2

jmepurple:

lurkylulu2:

brandnewmommy103:

jmepurple:

Why are you such an idiot?  Really?  Where in her post did she say she was going to lie to the state?  There is an even bigger Douchenozzle that posts on the SP board regularly and it isn't Achase....or LFJ for that matter...it happens to be you.  Pathetic really that you have nothing better to do then sit around and try to cyber bully....and single parents non the less....

shes not an idiot, she just has such a happy life that she has to escape into other peoples business as a distraction. its just so old already. why should this board be terrorized by someone with nothing good going on in their lives? i feel bad for her, its just sad.

I know this is really hard for some of you jaded women to believe, but I am incredibly happy with my life. I have an amazing husband, a healthy, beautiful daughter, a job that I love, etc. Just because I think someone is an idiot doesn't automatically mean I hate my life. That line is old and worn out.

 

And those who boast about how wonderful their life is....are the ones who lives really suck.   

Yes, because no one is ever happy with their life. You are a moron.

jmepurple

awww I'm wearing my sad face you called me a moron.  bwahahaha

NurseWright

You spend a lot of time and energy criticizing here...

brandnewmommy103

lurkylulu2:

jmepurple:

lurkylulu2:

brandnewmommy103:

jmepurple:

Why are you such an idiot?  Really?  Where in her post did she say she was going to lie to the state?  There is an even bigger Douchenozzle that posts on the SP board regularly and it isn't Achase....or LFJ for that matter...it happens to be you.  Pathetic really that you have nothing better to do then sit around and try to cyber bully....and single parents non the less....

shes not an idiot, she just has such a happy life that she has to escape into other peoples business as a distraction. its just so old already. why should this board be terrorized by someone with nothing good going on in their lives? i feel bad for her, its just sad.

I know this is really hard for some of you jaded women to believe, but I am incredibly happy with my life. I have an amazing husband, a healthy, beautiful daughter, a job that I love, etc. Just because I think someone is an idiot doesn't automatically mean I hate my life. That line is old and worn out.

 

And those who boast about how wonderful their life is....are the ones who lives really suck.   

Yes, because no one is ever happy with their life. You are a moron.

 

if someone is getting plenty of attention from their husband they don't need to start drama with people they dont know. if he is amazing i feel bad for him. but since i highly doubt it, you should probably tend to him and that beautiful daughter of yours and maybe he will have some respect for you. who has time to be a good wife, mother and maintain two bump profiles, and read about other peoples lives all day and night until you find something to jump on. but you know this...

PrettyInPearls23

I've said it once and I'll say it again -- nobody is immune from becoming a SP. Not even you lurky.

achase123

Ahhh lurky, back at it again I see.  Apparently you got tired of hammering on LJF and decided to pick on someone else. 

I'm late to this but as PPs have already stated, you are an idiot, for the following reasons:

-I am doing nothing wrong.  If DCSS were to contact me and ask about the validity of the receipts I would say that he has paid me in full.

-XH has been told numerous times to pay DCSS directly if he wants credit. 

-I called DCSS about him paying me CASH, directly and what my obligation is.  They informed me that my obligation is NOTHING.  If he is choosing to pay me directly I can turn it in to them OR I can call it a gift.  Since he's been told what he is to do if he wants credit, I don't see why I should have to take the payment to DCSS to make sure that HE gets credit.  He knows the rules, he continues to not follow them.

-You said that I implied that I was going to lie about his payment to me.  I wouldn't and haven't done any such thing.  He is paying me CS, and for that I am grateful.  However, if he doesn't get credit for it, that is his problem.  He is choosing to have me give him a receipt, and I have no idea if he's going to get credit for it.  However, that is not MY problem, it is HIS.  I have many other things to worry about besides that.  He's a big boy.

achase123

Oh, but I DID say that I secretly hope that he doesn't take the receipts to the DCSS because, as of now, he doesn't have his drivers license and it is being held until he makes some sort of payment towards his CS arrears balance.  The thought of him being allowed to drive with DS terrifies me.

That being said, I would never lie about his payment amount for this reason.  I just hope that he doesn't bring in the receipts and then it will not be an issue.  Even if he does turn in the receipts he hasn't made payments towards his arrears balance, as of yet so it's really not even an issue.