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Someone said something beautiful to me today about Miles

He's transferring to a new day care closer to Nora's school when she starts kindergarten next month, and everyone is sad to see him leave the place he's been at since about 3 months. They all love him.

Today when I was picking them up, this quiet girl who helps out the teachers in his classroom approached me and told me she sees Miles as the definition of pure, unadulterated joy and happiness.

"The kind we're born with, the kind we're made to carry through our lives but the kind many of us lose along the way." 

She doesn't have the best home life, that I know, and she said "Miles has cheered me up so many times just with a big smile or a run over to hug my legs. He loves me for who I am, unconditionally, and I've never had that before so I'm going to miss him."

GAH. I had tears rolling down my face, she had tears rolling down her face. The kids are both just standing there looking at us like whaaaa?

But it was a great moment. Really beautiful. 

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Nora Judith 7/2/06 Miles Chauncey 4/20/09 born with Trisomy 21 - Down syndrome

Re: Someone said something beautiful to me today about Miles

  • Love it and how wonderful she shared that with you.
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  • what a great thing to say to someone! :)
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  • That is beautiful. And I'm glad that she shared it. Too many people share only negativity. And it shows that she also has a clear understanding of what life really is all about.
  • That is beautiful.  And it's so wonderful she was able to verbalize that to you.
  • Incredibly beautiful.
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  • Please please please print this out for yourself and miles so you can share it with him when he is older and so you can remind yourself of the good when you have a less pleasant day.
  • imageCbidt's girl:
    Please please please print this out for yourself and miles so you can share it with him when he is older and so you can remind yourself of the good when you have a less pleasant day.

    This is not a bad idea. Thanks for the suggestion. 

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    Nora Judith 7/2/06 Miles Chauncey 4/20/09 born with Trisomy 21 - Down syndrome
  • LOVE.  :)
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  • I'm sentimental like that... And a therapist so I really value moments like you shared today. I was hoping I didn't offend you with my suggestion.
  • Now I have tears rolling down my face! What a sweet thing to hear about your child!
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  • Effin hell, you've made me cry again! I've been crying all day and had finally stopped. That was so sweet.
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  • Love!!! And you can see the joy in his sweet face in your siggy pic!! I say you frame her quote next to a pic of him with his precious smile. :).
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  • How wonderful she shared it with you, and how wonderful that Miles has been so thoughtfully cared for.
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  • How sweet of her to say. I can just imagine how much your heart swelled to hear that. You have a very special little boy and I know it had to feel good to have someone reaffirm that.
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  • I can see what she means just by looking at the smiling face in your siggie. So glad she told you that. And I definitely think you need to write it down and save it. 
  • I love it.
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  • *tears*

    that was beautiful. I'm glad she shared that with you 

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  • That made me tear up!
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  • Beautiful. Nothing like shedding a few happy tears before 9am :)

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  • Absolutely amazing!  And I agree with mama - I'm so glad she shared that with you and was actually able to put it into (such beautiful) words!!
  • So, so nice!!
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  • WOW!!  How beautiful.  That made me teary.
  • That was truly beautiful. It is so wonderful that she shared that with you and thank you for sharing it with us.
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