A question about men

smithpaint

This is silly - I know.  Does your DH or SO keep getting hotter and hotter as they age?  I married DH at 18, and I thought he was pretty cute.  Over time he just gets better and better looking.  I don't know if it's because he's more confident now or what it is (or maybe I'm delusional and no one else thinks he is getting better looking). 

I wish women aged as well as men.  I used to look really young for my age.  Now, not so much.  DH always has looked older than he is. It's only a matter of time before I look older than him (which I am by a whole 4 months)

Rink08

 yup. I met DH when we were 15 & 17 and was obviously attracted to him then but as we've gotten older he's transformed from being that hott, cocky, older guy with a six pack to a mature,slightly graying (yes at 25), sensitive, and  muscular man which I think is even better.  

Me, on the other hand... I'm the same height that I was at 15 and about 60 lbs heavier. 

ETA: Mands comment reminded me that I secretly pray that he remains hairless (he barely has any chest hair) and does not turn into his father who has puffs of hair peaking out of his shirts...front and back. 

Cheekers2010

I think my DH looks much better now! He has a better sense of style, is fitter and I think his face has more character. All of that adds up to more attraction for me. Totally agree about women, but I think it's because of our warped view of aging. Society tends not to think that age gives a woman's face character. Boo

Rink08

mands629:

Rink08:

 yup. I met DH when we were 15 & 17 and was obviously attracted to him then but as we've gotten older he's transformed from being that hott, cocky, older guy with a six pack to a mature,slightly graying (yes at 25), sensitive, and  muscular man which I think is even better.  

Me, on the other hand... I'm the same height that I was at 15 and about 60 lbs heavier. 

ETA: Mands comment reminded me that I secretly pray that he remains hairless (he barely has any chest hair) and does not turn into his father who has puffs of hair peaking out of his shirts...front and back. 

bahahaha!  ITA... My DH has minimal chest and no back hair... I don't want that to ever happen or I will strongly encourage that he gets it taken care of a la 40 Year Old Virgin!

Mine would never get waxed but I'm not above shaving him in his sleep.  

bumpuser260585

Rink08:

mands629:

Rink08:

 yup. I met DH when we were 15 & 17 and was obviously attracted to him then but as we've gotten older he's transformed from being that hott, cocky, older guy with a six pack to a mature,slightly graying (yes at 25), sensitive, and  muscular man which I think is even better.  

Me, on the other hand... I'm the same height that I was at 15 and about 60 lbs heavier. 

ETA: Mands comment reminded me that I secretly pray that he remains hairless (he barely has any chest hair) and does not turn into his father who has puffs of hair peaking out of his shirts...front and back. 

bahahaha!  ITA... My DH has minimal chest and no back hair... I don't want that to ever happen or I will strongly encourage that he gets it taken care of a la 40 Year Old Virgin!

Mine would never get waxed but I'm not above shaving him in his sleep.  

Nair would be easier!

NomMomster

I think my DH looks about the same as when we met (7 years ago) but I have noticed from facebook stalking out of curiosity that most of my ex-bfs look waaay better now than when I dated them!  And I hope they don't look me up because I feel like I've gone the opposite way.  Boo. 

awagner122210

mands629:

SpitsNGiggles:

Rink08:

mands629:

Rink08:

 yup. I met DH when we were 15 & 17 and was obviously attracted to him then but as we've gotten older he's transformed from being that hott, cocky, older guy with a six pack to a mature,slightly graying (yes at 25), sensitive, and  muscular man which I think is even better.  

Me, on the other hand... I'm the same height that I was at 15 and about 60 lbs heavier. 

ETA: Mands comment reminded me that I secretly pray that he remains hairless (he barely has any chest hair) and does not turn into his father who has puffs of hair peaking out of his shirts...front and back. 

bahahaha!  ITA... My DH has minimal chest and no back hair... I don't want that to ever happen or I will strongly encourage that he gets it taken care of a la 40 Year Old Virgin!

Mine would never get waxed but I'm not above shaving him in his sleep.  

Nair would be easier!

Oh my... We're terrible!

I'm going to agree with SpitsNGiggles....my DH is a hairy beast.  Ok not really but he def. has the whole back & chest hair which we trim down w/ clippers & I'm part Italian and their usually known to be hairy, lol....my LO stands zero chance! 

pitterpatter129

My husband looks better and better every year and I get fatter and fatter.  Sigh.