Anyone know of one who will do a first appt at 6 or 7 weeks? I am leaving for vacation right at my 8 week mark and my ob wont see me before then. I would love to get at least a wishy washy thumbs up before I go so I can relax and enjoy being pregnant on vacation instead of the hugest worrywart ever. I had a missed miscarriage last year at around 7 weeks so this has been torture for me. My levels were all fine so i am not considered high risk enough to get in early. I know the worrying will only get worse...any advice or any docs that will see me?
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Re: ob or cnm that does early ultrasounds?
I am also at Womens Specialist but seeing a CNM. My appt next wednesday, the 17th, is just a billing and policy orientation. The nurses have told me absolutely NO chance of ultrasound and NO blood work before 8 weeks and it will not happen at this billing and policies appt. Even when I begged and told them I feared I was getting ahead of myself with this meeting before even grasping I am REALLY pregnant again..they told me that normally people dont even know theyre pregnant this early (im 6 weeks) and that I needed to relax. I AM a stressball right now..but its mainly from fear of losing another baby and getting heartbroken again. I am hoping that I can beg beg beg beg my CNM in my billing and policies meeting with her face to face to try to fit me in sometime the week of the 22nd -24th (I leave the 25th for a cruise) I don't know what I would do then if something was wrong but at least I would know I guess.
Thanks Sage. I love Bay Area BC and have seen Jackie before...she's just a little too far for me. I did call her too and she basically told me if I had no spotting or anything weird to stop assuming the worst just because the worst happened before and chill. I love her and she knows how to talk to me but she said she didn't want to see me til 10 weeks and no u/s til 10 weeks.
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I'm sorry Harper, I wish you luck and hope that you get the reassurance that you need. Jackie and your CNM practice is right though, nothing comes from worry. I understand your side, though, too, about wanting to know for sure. I hope that you can have a good restful break on your trip and hope that you come home to a wonderful prenatal, a great later-term u/s, and a healthy bub!
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Thanks Guys. I'm happy you guys all got to go in early. Seriously. This is the worst 'treading water' situation I have ever been in. I was at Complete Womens Care during my missed miscarriage. I don't want to go back to them. Since I'm not at a RE or had anything even slightly abnormal in my labs at that time the CNMs just conisder me not high risk. It is a torturous wait. Especially to see DH being afraid to get attached to this pregnancy.
I have amazingly survived my 3 week wait til the week of this billing and policies appointment. (it's this wednesday the 17th ) No spotting and all the lovely accessories of a normal early pregnancy. But I am still hoping that I can beg my CNM in the meeting with her face to face to try to fit me in sometime the week of the 22nd -24th I'll be 8 weeks and I leave the 25th for a cruise. I don't know what I would do then if something was wrong but at least I would know I guess. I'm pretty sure once I can tell my CNM how stressed and fearful it is making my day to day life she might cave. Maybe. Pray for me