Hi all,
Mostly a lurker on this board, just wanted some input since we aren't sharing the name IRL until she's born..
It took DH and I months to agree on a name we both liked, (Annika Joy) at least I thought we had agreed. A few days ago we were discussing the name and realized we have different opinions on how to pronounce it! She didn't cooperate at her first anatomy scan and we didn't know the sex until around week 28, the boy name we picked had the same initials so we've been referring to her as AJ in public and private for months. I don't want to call her that all the time, we picked the actual name because we liked it!
However, I pronounce it AH-nick-ah and he pronounces it ANN-ick-ah. He says my way is the "pretentious" way. Honestly, I like my way but want to pronounce it however it is most commonly accepted because I don't want her/us to correct people all the time.
What do you think? Thanks!
Re: Annika--"correct" prounciation?
I don't understand how you agreed on a name without know how the other person pronounced it. Did you reach that decision via e-mail or something?
I pronounce it the way you do and mostly hear it that way. I don't think it sounds pretentious.
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I think both are right, just like the two accepted pronunciations of my own name- Anna. Maybe that's a deal breaker for you?
DH pronounces my name completely differently than the rest of my family and would probably pronounce Annika the way your DH does, but I was already pretty used to responding to both pronunciations.
Either way, it's definitely time to agree upon a uniform first name for the girl or else her nickname might just have to be Nicky, or something, which you probably weren't originally shooting for. (Though I could be off on all of my assumptions as that is the nature of the beast.)
lol yeah I didn't really understand how that happened either. The only thing I can think is, most of our name choosing was done very early and involved me making a list and him vetoing, with him occasionally adding a name. I KNOW I said the name out loud but he can sometimes listen without really hearing exactly what I'm saying, if that makes any sense...In any case, this is where we are now
Thanks to both of you for your opinions. I guess I pronounce it the way I do because when I first heard it, it was the name of a student of mine and that's how they pronounced it. I read all the Pippi books but didn't see the movie so didn't have any verbal background except that student.
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At first glance I would say "Ah-nick-a", but I could see how it could be said either way. I prefer it the "ah" way though!
I think the spelling has a lot to do with it.
Anika I would probably pronounce Ah-nicka.
Annika is Ann-icka to me.
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Are you Swedish? I'm from Sweden and I would not agree with you at all regarding the bolded part. Annika in Swedish does not rhyme with Monica (as pronounced in Swedish or English).
However, the correct pronunciation in Swedish really isn't important for you I guess and the name can definitely be pronounced both ways (and spelled in a number of ways) so pick whichever you prefer.