Always overwhelmed

bbygirl4

I have 3 daughters (5, 12, 15) and a pretty supportive husband. We have similar goals for our girls and we compromise a lot when we don't agree. I'm 35 yo and I thought my family was complete. I am 22 weeks into my surprise pregnancy and not enjoying it. Our plans to semi-retire and enjoy our girls has been altered. Never had symptoms with my three pregnancies aside from swelling and a little low blood pressure - minor stuff. This one has brought fatigue, nausea, headaches (that Tylenol won't help), bone and ligament pain, cramps...and then some. It has sent my emotions on a ride that gives me no warning. I am now in counseling and will probably take the drs advice to start meds. I tried to stay away from any medication while pregnant but my moods are scaring my kids (and me). My husband went from thinking it was all in my head to being very sensitive when I'm on a downward spiral. I have support and I still feel like I'm losing my mind. I want to be me again. :'^(

Dr.Loretta

You may want to visit the Postpartum Depression board. I'm sure there are gals there who were dealing with depression even before birth. I hope your counselor is able to help you and that you can adjust to your new normal. GL.

cherokeemomma87

I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I also went through something similar with my second. That pregnancy kicked my as$. Its good that you are getting help, and the meds do help a lot. I was on them for a couple years before I had my son. I wish you and your family the best!