Need some support ladies

Bella2u07

I can't shake these thoughts and feelings that this FET is not going to work.  And not knowing if we will continue with another IVF cycle (we are OOP) is driving me crazy too.  All I have been doing is crying on/off for the past 2 days and I know that's not good, but I can't seem to stop. 

I'm miserable.

Delta04

I know it is hard, Bella!  Your feelings are quite normal but try to hang in there!  I am sending ::hugs:: and positive vibes to you.  Can you get out and do something nice for yourself today...shopping and chocolate always work for me!!

BeeBee08

I think you should take Delta's advice and go for some shopping and chocolate.  Be good to yourself and do what you can to hang in there.  Huge ((hugs)), it is so horrible what we have to endure emotionally on top of the physical torture.  You're almost there!

DeputiesWife

::hugs::

Im thinking of you. 

STL34

I know the waiting game is so so hard.  And, as if IF wasn't bad enough, being OOP really adds insult to injury.  ((HUGS)) 

I really hope this is your cycle, hon.  Sending lots of T&Ps your way.

Ginger71

The 2ww sucks Up and down with your feelings and your hormones are raging. Uncontrollable crying? Hmmmmmm. That could be a very good sign Stay strong,honey!

etoyama

Big (((HUGS))) sweetie. It's so totally normal to feel that way when you've been disappointed so many times in the past! IF teaches us to expect the worst But I'm hoping for the very best for you!

mrsgcal

I'm so sorry hun ((HUGS))

gervaisj6

Thinking of you.

Melicakes

So sorry you're feeling frazzled sweetie but don't lose hope now!!! I am so rooting for you, we all are!!! Great BIG bear hugs to you Hun.

Rachael07.07.07

Hang in there hun! The uncertainty is horrible, I know, but just stay optimistic that having to do another cycle isn't in the cards for you since this cycle will be it for you! Sending you lots and lots of (((hugs)))!

mikeandangie

I felt exactly the same way with our successful cycle. Trust me, our gut feeling means absolutely nothing. I am very optimistic for you!

illinigal

Huge hugs. The waiting is definitely the hardest part. I hope you get great news at your beta and this is your super sticky baby.

theworms

it's the 2ww cutie. it's a mindfuc*k rollercoaster.

this is exactly why i want to be sedated.

labbylover03

((huge hugs))  T&Ps headed your way!  It's all so hard sometimes...

M&MBride0506

The 2ww is the worst. I'm so sorry that you are feeling this way. Try not to be discouraged. IF sucks.

naybird

Oh hun, I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. Sending you big hugs and lots of positive vibes. The 2ww sucks!!! Try and keep your chin up!!

Temp590840000005378

Oh hun, I'm so very sorry, I would be feeling the exact same way, it's so hard to try and be positive and hopeful, ugh!! ((BIG HUGS))

icedcoffeeluv

Hang in there. Try to stay positive! It's so hard after all the stings of IF though.

As others have said try to do something for yourself over the next few days.

mm29

I am so sorry you are feeling this way!  (((Hugs)))

Try to keep yourself busy, and do something you enjoy!

Sending you lots of PPVs!!!

Echloe

(((((HUGS)))))

My advice is to go do something to take your mind off of this cycle.  Go get a massage, or a mani/pedi or something.  It will help a little.  

07may07

Sending you lots of hugs and good vibes for your BFP!  The 2ww is torture.  I agree with PPs--make sure to do something for yourself to try to take your mind off of things (even just a little bit).  Rent a cheesy girly movie, get some ice cream, etc.

 

((HUGS))

SweetDahlia

I hate when things get you down when cycling. Huge hugs. I hope the time passes quickly. It's hard to stay positive, but you have to or you will make yourself crazy.
I would try to keep busy. I know that helps me.

Mrs.Voz

Delta04:

I know it is hard, Bella!  Your feelings are quite normal but try to hang in there!  I am sending ::hugs:: and positive vibes to you.  Can you get out and do something nice for yourself today...shopping and chocolate always work for me!!

I agree 100% with Delta!  I just sent a truckload of PPV to your door!!  Do something for you today!  {{Big Hug}}

babylove0511

(((HUGS))) i know how hard the 2ww is sweetie. stupid IF makes you expect the worst and think so negative. i am praying for you and sending tons of PPV your way!!

(((((((HUGS)))))))

Mayan2011

I am so sorry you are having a tough time, but I totally understand.  Treatments are so hard on us.  I really hope you have a better day tomorrow.  BIG SQUISHY ((hugs))

km0426

awww..hang in there. this.part of the 2ww always screws with our heads and our hearts. sending you tims of hugs!

AmberB75

Sending you big hugs! This crap is so hard!!

abvernon

get those bad thoughts out of your head. Think good, happy thoughts. This one WILL work.

MBfromBMC

It is just sooooo hard to be constantly weighing the emotional and financial issues...

(((HUGE HUGS))) and I really hope this FET is your sticky BFP!