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I am sixteen, and no I am NOT ttc, but this board is a lot more active than the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board and so I've been lurking lately. Just wanted to let all of you know who I am if I post anywhere. I found out that I was pregnant on 6/23. I told my my parents and sister that day. We went on vacation a few weeks after and I started bleeding and cramping the last day of vacation, 7/10 at seven weeks. The next day my OB confirmed that I had miscarried. My boyfriend dumped me that day, but my family was more supportive than they had been. Since then, I've been trying to move forward. I wish I could have a baby still, and I miss being pregnant, but I know better than to do that. I am going to finish school, find a husband, and get a job before I get pregnant again. I miss my little angel every day, but I'm happy she's in heaven. 

Sorry for all of your losses, and good luck! :) 

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    welcome to the board! Go back and read my response to you on my post "speechless" :)
    (USE TO BE, WISH2BEMOMMY). 1st BFP ever Aug. 16, 2010.... 1st OB appt. Sept. 8, 2010, u/s showed poss. blighted ovum.... b/w 9/8/10 22,698 b/w 9/10/10 14,521.... mmc confirmed, started naturally m/c 9/15/10, d & c 9/16/10 I love you my precious monkey!! 2nd BFP March 2011.... c/p, miss you lil one!! 3rd BFP Nov. 20, 2011, subcornial hemorrhage detected 11/24/11 heartbeat found.... LO's heartbeat lost 11/25/11.... d & c 11/26/11..... I love and miss you so much baby!!!! C/P 4/26/12.... gone before I knew you.... off BCP 10-1-13.. BFP 11-20-13.. SCH for 7 weeks.. 3-4-14: It's a Girl!.. 4-22-12 emergency cerclage placed..7-7-14 cerclage removed at 36w.. delivered Lillian Marie 7-28-14..
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    Welcome! I have been following your posts on mc/pl, and even though I already said it, I want to say again how very sorry I am for your loss. This is a much more active board and you'll find much comfort and support here. I know I have. It sounds like you are very mature and know what you want out of life. Finishing school is a good start :) I know that one day you will get your take home baby. I think I probably speak for everyone when I say we are here for you for anything!! So don't hesitate to post or ask any questions!
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    I am sorry for your loss and hope you find some comfort here.
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    So sorry for you loss.
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    Thank you to everyone! :)
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I hope yu can find comfort and support here.
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    *hugs*  I'm so sorry for your loss.  
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    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #1 12/29/10 EDD 08/29/11 Blighted Ovum 02/09/11 D&C 02/11/11

    Clomid 50mg BFP #2 09/21/11 EDD 05/29/11 Chemical Pregnancy 10/4/11

    BFP #3 4/19/13 Beta1- 106 Beta2- 524 Beta3- 3500 EDD 12/22/13 LO born 12/31/13

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    welcome to the board.I am sorry for your loss I couldn't imagine going through this at your age. I am considered one of the younger ones on this board and it's so hard now because there aren't many women my age TTC or that are married for that fact. I hope you find this board full of support. I am currently TTA for 5-6 years so I'm "kinda" in the same boat as you as far as waiting for a while. ((hugs))
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    Welcome!   I commend you for tried to keep this baby and to now know that you want to wait.  My heart aches that your boyfriend did not stand by you through thick and thin.

    It is amazing to have a man that loves you 100% to be by your side.  We have been married for 8 years and I wish we had tried to have a baby earlier but the timing just wasn't right---I guess there is never a "perfect" time.  I think all of this has taught me how badly I do want to be a mommy.  

    You will have your man and your baby, someday.  Get that school done and come by here often!

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    Welcome to the board, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you have find the comfort you need from this board.


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    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

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    Welcome to the board.  I'm so sorry for your loss. I recognize you from mc/pl.  I hope you find lots of support here!
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    And this is why I love these boards. I feel so much support from everyone, from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much. I hope that I can be as supportive to all of you as you have been to me. I realize that I can't really understand your situations very much, but I'll do what I can to help :) Good luck to all of you! :):)
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    Welcome to the board, sweetie.  It's so good to have you here.  ((Hugs))
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    BFP #1 6/28/11 ~ EDD 3/7/12 ~ m/c 7/15/11 at 6w2d
    BFP #2 8/29/11 ~ EDD 5/12/12. 4/25/12: Our take home baby is here!
     BFP #3 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/11/14.  4/27/14:  Our second take home baby is here!

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    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #1 12/1/02 DD born 7/25/03 
    BFP #2 7/23/10 EDD 3/30/11 m/c 8/17/10 We will always miss you Angelique Marie! 
     BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
     Lucky Lee (furbaby) born 1.29.12 
     Midnight Marie (furbaby) born 7.4.12 passed for unknown reasons 9.19.12 Missing my jumping bean. 
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    I also remember you from the mc/loss board.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I can only imagine how difficult this must be for you.  I am glad you found this group to share your feelings with.  A m/c is the loss of a child no matter how old or young you are. 
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    I just want to say welcome and I am so sorry for your loss. I know the pain of losing a child and knowing in your heart it is not a smart thing to TTC again until you are more stable. It feels especially punishing, like you can't move forward. Take time to grieve!! And especially take care of yourself.
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    Welcome to the board hun, i remember you from the mc/pl board and you are more than welcome to come here even though you won't be TTC. I admire your maturity and you remind me a lot of myself when i was your age. Keep your head up and don't let anyone put you down or tell you that you cannot do something. ;-)
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    I am so very sorry for your loss. No matter our age or place in the journey of life a loss such as we have experienced is heartbreaking. I hope you find strength and support thorough this board and your family and friends. I too have followed you a little on the mc/pg loss board and I think you are very mature and deserve the same respect and support as the rest of us. Take life slowly though, you will wake up one day very soon and be in your 30s! Trust me, the 30s are great but there is so much I wish I would have done!

    Big hugs to you!!!!

    And poop on your ex!!

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
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    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. We all come from different walks of life and are in different situations, but the pain of losing our LO's is the same. I hope you do well in school, find a loving man, and get a take home baby when you both are ready for one. Until then, I hope you find the comfort and support you need here. Welcome.

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    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. You seem to have amazing strength even being younger. That's admirable and I think it'll help on your journey to heal. Welcome to the board.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I have a very young girl in my support group and really it doesn't matter how young or old you are, a loss is a loss. It's painful at any age.


     

    bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks

    bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks

    bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks

    bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p

    bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks

    bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks



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    I'm glad you are moving forward & making positive plans for your future. I'm so sorry again for your loss. I hope you find comfort & support here too. Take care. *hugs*
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    I know I've said it a ton, but SERIOUSLY, thank you all :) I'm very sorry for all of your losses, and good luck TTC! 
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    Welcome to the board! :)
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