So, daycare just called me

Dougsgirl4ever

at work to tell me that one of the other little girls told everyone that she saw a girl kissing another girls vagina on a movie last night.  Sweet just what I want my 4.5 year old to be hearing & asking questions about.

karen6784

Holy crap!  Were her parents letting her watch porn? I have no words.

joseysbride

ccm1203

WTF!

Dougsgirl4ever

karen6784:

Holy crap!  Were her parents letting her watch porn? I have no words.

I'm going to assume that it is the little girl who's Mom is a porn star.

ppants

OMG!! I would be furious!!  I hope daycare is reported it to SRS.  That is abuse.

karen6784

Dougsgirl4ever:

karen6784:

Holy crap!  Were her parents letting her watch porn? I have no words.

I'm going to assume that it is the little girl who's Mom is a porn star.

Missed that post!  That poor little girl. 

amiamish

omg. big hellz no. At least they let you know so you can think of answers before she asked. And I don't think I would bring it up. I would wait until she ask. She may not have heard it or thought much of it when she heard it. Also, I'd ask the daycare what THEY said/did when they heard the little girl talking.

kevschickee2

She may have seen it by accident.  Maybe her parents thought she was asleep?  I would not report this to the state.  Who knows if the kid is making it up too?

camrude

Holy sh*t.

justEK

karen6784:

Dougsgirl4ever:

karen6784:

Holy crap!  Were her parents letting her watch porn? I have no words.

I'm going to assume that it is the little girl who's Mom is a porn star.

Missed that post!  That poor little girl. 

I guess I missed it, too. Crazy! 

penguingrrl

Oh no!!! My guess is that Mommy and Daddy were having snuggle time in their room and watching porn and she walked in.

kevschickee2

penguingrrl:

Oh no!!! My guess is that Mommy and Daddy were having snuggle time in their room and watching porn and she walked in.

That is what I am thinking

JellymanKelly

Dougsgirl4ever:

karen6784:

Holy crap!  Were her parents letting her watch porn? I have no words.

I'm going to assume that it is the little girl who's Mom is a porn star.

 

SERIOUSLY? Wow. That's terrible!

4.5 is a little young to have to explain that to a child!

Dougsgirl4ever

Daycare said she called the dad & he said that he was going to put parental control on the t.v. so I'm going to assume again that she was probably changing channels & who knows how long she watched it.

ppants

kevschickee2:

She may have seen it by accident.  Maybe her parents thought she was asleep?  I would not report this to the state.  Who knows if the kid is making it up too?

It could have been an accident, but I don't think that 4-5 yr olds make up stuff like this.  DH was involved in a case where the "parents" actually had their kid watching porn.

ppants

kevschickee2:

She may have seen it by accident.  Maybe her parents thought she was asleep?  I would not report this to the state.  Who knows if the kid is making it up too?

It could have been an accident, but I don't think that a4-5 yr olds "make up" stuff like this.  DH was involved in a case where the "parents" actually had their kid watching porn.

Rebekah1021

Yikes!! I bet that was an awkward phone call to the parents.

Angela814

Wow. How does one even go about explaining that to a kid? I'd be mortified if my child accidentally turned on a Skinimax at the wrong time. I'm so glad our TV is too complicated for her to turn on.

ghm

Ditto those who say it could have been an accident. 

BubblyToes

mrs_sexy:

OMG!! I would be furious!!  I hope daycare is reported it to SRS.  That is abuse.

OMG.  Seriously?

Would I be annoyed?  Maybe.  

If my kid asked me about it, I don't know what I would say, but I would deal with it.

Would I be running around screaming abuse?  Hell no.  That's ridiculous.

summerbrideDC

OMG, that is mortifying.  I am wondering,though, how the girl equated what she saw w/ "kissing," b/c I'm thinking that what she saw really doesn't look anything like "kissing" in the way a 4 yo conceptualizes it.  

And really? Calling CPS? Unless the girl said, "my parents taped my eyes open & made me watch porn," I can't imagine this qualifying as abuse.  Horrifying & embarrassing for the parents, confusing for the kid, I'm sure.  But not abuse.  

ghm

Ditto SBDC and bubs. I really can't figure out why CPS would be called over this. 

Temp108743750006959

we have a lot of CPS junkies as of late, huh?