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We have a trasplant date!

I have a big update and explanations on the blog.  But, we were shocked to find out today (after our very long conference with the transplant team) that Kate will be admitted in 2 weeks.

Deep breaths.

I'm totally freaking out about this b/c I've been thinking Kate would be a September transplant.

Our schedule is as follows:

August 9 - admission, place central line
August 10 - start chemo
August 18 - collect donor's cells, day of rest (no chemo) for Kate
August 19 - transplant; Kate's first birthday

Yes, you read that right!  Kate's "re-birth" will happen on her first birthday.  While I'm sad she will spend her birthday in the hospital (and that her party is cancelled), it is very surreal to think that exactly one year after I met the sweet baby girl that forever changed me, she will get a second chance at life.

So, I'm currently in hand everything over at work, figure out what we need for a 6 week hospital stay, and get everything else ready mode!

I can't believe this is happening so fast!  Thank you for the continued thoughts and prayers!  Kate wouldn't be heading to transplant so quickly if it weren't for her amazing donor that has been so responsive!  I pray that we will be able to meet him as soon as we are allowed to exchange information (typically 1 year post transplant)!

 

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  • This kicks AZZZZ!!!!

    Hooray for an awesome donor who's on the ball and ready to roll.

    And I think it's a super cool sign that it's gonna fall on her birthday.

    I'm sure it's overwhelming that it's happening so fast.

    Kate's got SOOO many people pulling for her.

    T, P & J continuing!! 

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
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  • Wow that is great news!  I got chills when I read about her "re-birth".  Best of luck to all of you. 
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  • Wow, that's so soon! While I agree it stinks that she will be in the hospital on her first birthday, it is really amazing she is given the second chance she needs on her first birthday! 

    Kate, you, your dh and family are in my thoughts and prayers. What and amazing and terrifying time for you guys. 

    (((Hugs)))

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  • Wow! Wonderful news! Still sending tons and tons of good thoughts her (and your!) way through all of this!!!!!

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  • kme930kme930 member
    I have chills! How amazing!!! So happy for you and continued thoughts and prayers are with Kate. :)
  • My mom and I were just talking about how it sucks she'll be in the hospital for her birthday, but that has got to be the BEST 1st birthday gift ever.  The gift of life!

    Hugs, my friend.  I am here for you all every step of the way!


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  • Just so freaking awesome.  And the date is just a sign, I think.  Thinking of Kate every day and sending continued thoughts and prayers.
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  • Love it.  So happy for you guys. 
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    Wow what amazing news! continued prayers sent that everything goes perfectly!

     

     

     

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    Wow, that's so soon! While I agree it stinks that she will be in the hospital on her first birthday, it is really amazing she is given the second chance she needs on her first birthday! 

    This. 

    You all continue to be in my thoughts & prayers every day. 

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  • Big Smile couldnt be happier for you!!!
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  • This is phenomenal news. It is clearly meant to be. I am so happy for you guys. Continued T&P's!
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  • Such great news!
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  • Wow - that must be so much to take in - your mind has to be racing.  All the best to all of you as you continue on this journey. 
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  • This is amazing news!!!
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  • This makes me SO happy!!  Best of luck with the coming weeks and all that goes along with this transplant.  I'm praying that everything goes perfectly and Kate will get her second chance on her birthday (what a good sign!).  
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  • Wow, just amazing.  And it's all happening on her one year birthday.  I continue to pray for you and Kate to get through this (and your DH.)  It will be tough being in the hospital that long, but you can do it!  

    I am just so, so happy all of this is happening! 

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  • Wow, that's a lot to process so quickly to get you all ready for Kate's surgery, but it sounds like it was meant to be with the timing on her birthday! SO excited and hopeful for you all. All our love going out to you and your sweet girl!
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    What great news for you & Kate.  I know it can be a bit daunting how quickly everything can move but it's all for the best..  Good luck!!
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  • This brought tears to my eyes. The fact that her transplant will be on her first birthday is definitely a sign in my eyes!

    You guys will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers!!

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  • Oh, wow! Gave me goosebumps! Wonderful news. Constantly thinking of you all.
  • Whoa!  Excellent news. 

    I'll be praying every step of the way.

    Make use of the hospital volunteers all you can, and here's to success.

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  • That is AMAZING.  Really great news.  What a birthday gift!  T&P Everythign will be great.
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  • I am sooo glad that she found a match because of the low number of possible matches and that everything is falling into place. I pray that she has a smooth transplant and a speedy recovery....and that there are no more obstacles to her health. I honestly don't know how you have been able to handle all this with such grace.
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  • So glad this is all coming together so quickly.  She is getting an extra special birthday gift!  Thinking of all of you.
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  • Oh, that's such wonderful news!  I'm continuing to pray for sweet Kate with all my might, and I just know she'll come through it like a champ.
                                  

      
                                   
  • amazing, amazing, amazing...i am so thrilled for you and Kate I can't put it into words....

    so much love and prayers with you guys!!  

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  • Awesome!  So happy for you all!
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  • Wow, that is big news! I'm so happy to hear that Kate's match was found and willing to go forward with the transplant. I think the date being her 1st birthday is a good sign! Sending thoughts and prayers for a smooth surgery and recovery.
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  • That is one AMAZING 24 yr old you have as a donor! I think it is so poetic that her birthday is the transfer day! Lots of hugs and good thoughts for Kate as you guys go down this road with her.
  • I have absolutely everything crossed for your sweet Kate. Sending tons and tons of T&P's your way!!!
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    YAY!  I hope all goes extremely well and Kate is running around healthy with new marrow in a few months! 
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  • Best post ever. SO incredibly thrilled for you and sweet Kate!!!!
  • What amazing news! I'll keep Kate, you, your DH and the donor in my prayers.
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    imageLCB34:

    Yes, you read that right!  Kate's "re-birth" will happen on her first birthday.  While I'm sad she will spend her birthday in the hospital (and that her party is cancelled), it is very surreal to think that exactly one year after I met the sweet baby girl that forever changed me, she will get a second chance at life.

     

    This is wonderful news -- and what a wonderful way you have of looking at things. Can I also take this moment to say I completely admire the strength which which you have faced Kate's illness? Your daughter is so lucky to have you as a mom. And we moms are all lucky to have you as an inspiration. 

    After 7 failed IUIs, IVF w/ ICSI worked!!

    I am thankful every day for my miracle after infertility.

    And thrilled to be pregnant again after FET!

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  • What great news to wake up and read this morning. I'm so happy for you all and the date is so symbolic. Here's to many more birthdays spent celebrating in countless ways!
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  • This such amazing news!!!!!  I will continue to pray for your family!!!!

  • That is great news!  Lots of thoughts and prayers coming your way.
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