Question[s] about his paper work

UnderAtree

Sorry if this is long I didn't mean for it to be....

When I filed I didn't put anything down for property seeing how we never owned anything together. Not even a bill. Well I got his paper work from his lawyer yesterday and he has stuff on there. He has his car, which is in his parent's name. My car, which is in my parents' names. And his school loan and all of his bills he had way before we were married.

Now just because we got married does that mean all this automatically becomes ours even though my name isn't on any of this? And with him putting my parents' car as his will that hurt him?

Also for his job he states he makes $1200 a month working forty hours. My brother did the math and from what he is stating he is making less then minimum wage. Then later he states on there that he spends almost triple his monthly wages on bills.

Could I use any of this against him in court?

 

And one question on child support. I had a friend tell me that if it doesn't state on the check or money order (which is what he gives me) that its for child support (or as he calls it "baby expenses") its a gift not actual child support. Is this true? I never filed for child support he is just giving me money whenever he feels like it to keep me from filing.

christine_marie

I don't know about the bills, but as far as I know about child support is if it isn't done through the court system, then it is a gift. It doesn't matter if he states that it's for CS or not, it's all a gift.

Ariana2O11

i dont know about the rest, but if the loans and other bills are from before you were married, then that is his responsibility and you are not responsible for it. You two are only responsible for whatever loan, debt that accumulated during the marriage-not before.

My divorce lawyer told me this. 

imleeann

about the child support.. yes thats just a gift be cause someone i know spent so much money on his daughters and gave there mother money if she ever needed it for anything. and then the mother took him to court for child support and he said he gave them money and he showed proof of the money orders and such. but the court said thats a gift and no he owes tons of child support money to her.

 

im not sure about the other question.. but i would think that you could becuase what hes saying doesnt make any sense!