I hate that I'm even thinking this could possibly work (hope is just such a tease for me), but anyway... My parents, aunt and uncle are renting a beach house in Long Beach Island NJ for a week, starting the day of my beta. It's about a 2 hour drive but could be 3 with traffic. If it's negative, no problem to go down. But, if it's positive (knock on wood), I guess I would have to find a Lab Corp on the island to get repeat draws. Also I'm wondering if it's a good idea anyway: First there's the long car ride; plus I would use a beach umbrella but I'd still probably be in the heat/sun somewhat; not sure if swimming's a good idea and it might be torture for me not to since I love the ocean; doing a fair bit of walking to get to the beach and to our spot (the beach is pretty wide down there). On the other hand, it would be really fun.
WDYT - am I overthinking it, or should I just stay home on the couch in the air conditioning? I realize this is probably a really stupid thing to be worried about, especially ahead of time.
Re: Beach after beta?
I would plan to go. It'll give you something to look forward to and keep your mind off the 2ww as much as possible.
We had a trip planned for 2 weeks after beta last summer and the only reason I couldn't go was OHSS. Without that there wouldn't have been a problem.
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I'd go.
Pregnant people do things all the time before they even know they are pregnant. Most people would have know idea if they were pregnant or not when you'll have your beta. It'll be fine.
Enjoy the trip!
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I think it is a great thing that you are thinking so positively! :-) I am so excited to hear the news!! I have good feelings about this!
I would go to the beach. LBI is beautiful and you could find ways to stay cool when it is super hot. I am not sure about the swimming, but I am sure lots of pregnant ladies swim before and after they know they are pregnant.
Good Luck!
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