I know I can not be the only one stuck in a veritable no-man's land.
As soon as I/we make the decision to be child free (as this has happened numerous times) one or both of us decide that we want to try again.
This time it is my husband again who wants to try "just one more time".
Amazingly enough I am willing to go along with his whim, this time, but there has got to be a way to come to a finite end point.
I just need to find a way to convince him of the same.
Re: Roller coaster ride
*hugs*
It's so hard to figure out when enough is enough.
According to your husband, what does "trying" entail?
Mainly just charting/opks/cbefm although he did mention doing another clomid cycle, which isn't going to happen.
I told him we were only going to give it six months at a time and then reassess if we both wanted to continue after that.
I know my answer already.
"It's a child, not a cheeto" Thanks mmariluh!
"Ew. I've read all of two posts from you, and you stink like rotting garbage."
YES! We do the same thing (which is why I've not been posting on here) and have now decided we're going to "try" to adopt. I say "try" because we now have to get someone to choose us to parent their child and it's just another thing that is totally out of our hands. I don't want DH to be a first time parent at 40 (he's 36) so I'm bracing myself for a few years of pain and ultimatly, failure... HOPEFULLY I'M WRONG!!! but this is what I've been taught to expect by IF. I now insulate myself.
Well, that became about me, didn't it?! I don't know how one comes to a definate end point.