My 4.5 month old has been having parenting time every Tuesday and Thursday from 5pm-6pm and every sunday from 1-6pm (used to be 2-6 until this month) He wants more time. I can't stand seeing him this often! And it is so stressful on weeknight, running home from work to nurse LO saying hi to my 10 yr old, running back out the door to meet ex and going back home to make dinner, say hi to 10 yr old, pump, run back out door, and fit soccer games in there for 10 yr old some days! ARGG....
We will be going to mediation soon. I know he expects a lot more. I am hoping that once LO is older, I would like it to be one weeknight and every other weekend, like all day Saturday and all day Sunday, but no overnights until he is older. Does that sound reasonable? Or am I wrong here?
What is your parenting time like with your ex for an infant?
Re: Parenting time schedule...
I have no problem with the frequent visits. We were not married nor lived together since around the time I became pregnant. We do exchanges at the local police station parking lot. Not feeling comfortable to meet elsewhere. (long story) We used to have the police present when he came to my home, then they asked us to go to their parking lot and we had them present. Now we just meet in the parking lot, no police present. As I stated, I am fine with frequent, short visits as all the research states that is best at this age. I am just wondering what others were like and what was common. We will be going to mediation soon. There are currently no legal visitation rights and I was trying to get an idea of what to expect and see what is "normal" visitation for a young infant.
Hmmm, that's not a choice I would make as a parent of a 10 year old, but to each their own. My XH visited with our son at my home, under my supervision until the baby's first birthday. There were extenuating circumstances, though.