Seriously?!

JayKuh

So, Parker's father and I haven't been speaking. The last time I talked to him he told me that I am the reason he doesn't want to be around Parker. Which doesn't bother me, we're better off without him. But, I am a Preschool teacher at a facility that is also a daycare. Parker stays in the Nursery there while I am working. Parker's father isn't on the emergency card and they know that I don't want his father to have any contact with him. But now I'm finding out that his father's new girlfriend has 2 daughters that go to the daycare and he occasionally picks them up and drops them off. I haven't seen him yet, but he knows I work there. Seriously man? Could you please just stay out of my life. 

Ok.. end vent. 

okballet16

So he doesn't have anything to do with your LO but is involved with his girlfriend's daughters? That sounds exactly like my ex. He has only met DD 3 times but lives with his girlfriend and her kids.

He sounds like a DB, sorry you have to deal with that.

JayKuh

He doesn't. He also has 2 more babies, the oldest one turned 1 recently I think, the youngest one is Parker. He's a super-douche. I'm actually glad he's not around to screw Parker up and I feel terrible for those little girls because they have to deal with him. He has no rights to Parker so if he all-of-a-sudden wanted to see him then they'd have to run it by me because he's not on his records at daycare, but it makes me nervous to have him that close, not because he's a terrible person (as in, not abusive), but I don't want him to pop in and out of Parker's life whenever he feels like it, which is the reason I didn't put him on the Birth Certificate. He has to take me to court to get any rights to him. 

PrincessFiona9

I can totally relate. I just found out EX's new gf has 2 kids...probably about  6-7 years old. I'm like lady...you are crazy bringing this DB around your kids. I feel bad for them.

okballet16

JayKuh:

He doesn't. He also has 2 more babies, the oldest one turned 1 recently I think, the youngest one is Parker. He's a super-douche. I'm actually glad he's not around to screw Parker up and I feel terrible for those little girls because they have to deal with him. He has no rights to Parker so if he all-of-a-sudden wanted to see him then they'd have to run it by me because he's not on his records at daycare, but it makes me nervous to have him that close, not because he's a terrible person (as in, not abusive), but I don't want him to pop in and out of Parker's life whenever he feels like it, which is the reason I didn't put him on the Birth Certificate. He has to take me to court to get any rights to him. 

That is why I didn't want my ex around DD because he would be in and out of her life and I don't want her to go through that. He just now sued me for everyother weekend and all that but we don't have a court date set yet.

He also has other kids and he is apart of their lives when it is convenient for him.