Holly, I'm so so sorry. I hate that this is happening. I hate that it is so hard for so many of us. I hate pg loss.
TTC with severe MFI since 9/08
IVF w/ ICSI #1 May/June 2010= BFP twins
Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
FET #1 April 2011= BFN
FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138
Living After Losing
I am so very sorry:< It's so unfair. We will miss you. I will continue to think and pray about you guys.
PAIF and SAIF Always Welcome!
TTC since 2007
6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :<
PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. This is devastating, and I will keep you and your DH in my T&Ps during this time. I hope that your healing brings about a clear decision for how to move on.
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My heart is breaking for you. I don't want to say I know exactly what you're going through, but my first loss was very similar. We had heard the heartbeat at 7, 8, and 10 weeks...as well as great u/s at 7 & 8 weeks. Then at my NT scan at 12 weeks, I knew immediately that the baby didn't look big enough...and I couldn't see the flicker. My poor DH was confused as I laid there sobbing in front of the sonographer before he could even utter the words. Our baby measured 10 weeks 2 days...so s/he passed within a day or two of our last OB appt heartbeat check. I was absolutely devastated as well so I wish I could give you this biggest IRL hug.
I'm so very sorry that this happened to you and your DH. You've been through so much to have this little one and it's so not fair that s/he was taken from you so soon. Some things I will never understand.
T&P's coming your way as you go through tomorrow and begin to heal from this. I absolutely hate this for you.
Thank you for sharing this with me. Your story is so similar to what happened with us. It helped me to read this and know that you understand how it feels. Thanks.
I'm glad you didn't mind me sharing my story. I just wanted you to know you are not alone. If you ever want to talk, I'm here.
I just remember feeling the most helpless feeling in the world....knowing that my so desparately-wanted child was gone and there was nothing I could do about it. With a missed m/c, you are absolutely blind-sided. It makes my heart ache and my stomach hurt just knowing the emotions that you're going through right now. I would tell people that I'd never get "over" losing my baby but in time I'd deal with it better...and over a year later, this is still how our feel.
Praying all goes smoothly tomorrow and will be thinking about you in the coming days.
"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see." Hebrews 11:1
Oh my God. I wish I knew what to say. I wish I could take away all the pain, even for just a moment. I'm so very sorry- you will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
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My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry. Take care of yourself.
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46 DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!! First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
I am so sorry for your loss. It is devestating, I know. I hope your procedure goes as smoothly as possible tomorrow and that you begin to heal. I wish you the best and am sending you ((((hugs))).
TTC Since 10/08
4 IUIs=BFNx4
IVF#1=BFP!! Twins!!
Bradley and Billy born and lost on 2/2/11 at 19w2d due to pPROM/PTL. I miss you, little angels.
IVF#2=BFN
IVF#3=c/p
IVF#4=Empty Follicle Syndrome; 1 mature, fertilized, & made it to blast. 5dt of "the lone ranger" on 9/6. Please stick, little one!
I am so, so sorry. That is terrible news and I really hope that you can take time to heal and mourn. We will miss you, but I know why you need to leave. I am really, really sorry.
After 1 IUI, 3 IVF's with CGH/CCS testing, 10 early miscarriages, and lots of tears and frustration, we are moving on to Domestic Infant Adoption! We are so excited to see what the future holds.
Oh God Holly I'm so devastated for you. I've been there and I honestly don't know how I got through it. I hope to God you are back soon. Not enough hugs in the world right now - please keep in touch and let me know how you are - Carolyn
1-20-09 BFP third month of Follistim IUI
02-19-09 MC
06-24-09 MC
July IUI Follistim Ganirelix Ovidrel Crinone=BFN
Aug. IUI Follistim Ganirelix ovidrel Crinone=BFP= scared sh**less
10-12-09 MC = 1 ectopic 1 perfect
Dec. IUI Gonal-F Ganirelix Ovidrel Crinone Lovenox
01-02-10 BFP=scared sh**less again
01-06-10 CP
SAIF ALWAYS WELCOME : )
March 2010 - IVF in progress
converted to IUI
03-30-10 BFN
April 2010 - IVF - BFFN
June 2010 - IVF - BFFN
July IUI BFP!
March 26 2011 Gracie is here!
Holly- I am so so so very sorry for your loss !!! I know that there is nothing I can possibly say that will make you feel better but please know that we are all here for you. {{{hugs}}} Please do whatever you need to to take care of yourself.
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie "Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
I am so sorry sweetie. huge ((hugs)) I hope you let your heart and body heal. I will be thinking of you.
TTC since 07/2009
Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796
Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
Our little miracle baby is a boy.
Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
"What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
SAIF/PAIF Welcome
Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
My heart breaks reading this, and I know there aren't any words that will make it better. Please know that you and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers. Huge hugs, holly.
Our Blog - http://thedittemores.blogspot.com/
Dx PCOS 2003/high fasting insulin/clotting issues
DH Dx with low sperm count, motility and morphology.
Varicocele repair (11/1/2010) 2/2011 - Confirmed no improvement - On to Donor Sperm
4 failed IUIs in 2010
IUI#5 and 6- with DS, BFN
Final IUI - Lucky #7! IUI with DS - 20.Jun.2011 - 21.5 mil motile! Not so lucky - BFFN and the end of our IF journey....
Waiting for our family to be complete through Adoption - May 2012 - Hoping our baby finds us soon!
Oh Holly, my heart breaks for you and your Dh. I am so sorry. BIG HUGS
TTC #1 Since 11/08 - Dx: MFI & PCOS 7 IUIs = All BFNs 2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN
2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents May IVF #3 = c/p June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler) July FET #2 = BFN Aug FET #3 = BFN Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn) Nov HSG/Sono = Clear! Dec FET #4 = BFN
2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl) June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy) Sept FET #6 = TBD **PAIF/SAIF Welcome**
Oh, Holly, I am so sorry for your loss. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope you can find a way to move on whichever road you choose. *big hugs*
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Oh honey....I am just sobbing for you. Saying i am sorry doesn't even come close. My heart is broken for you. Take very good care of yourself, hon. This is so awful and beyond unfair. (((hugs)))
Brought to you by IVF, ICSI, limited fert, and oocyte cryopreservation. Because we're fancy like that.
I am so, so very sorry hun. There aren't enough words to express how much I hurt for you. Whatever you have to make yourself better is what you need to do. I hope that you will stop by every once in a while. (((hugs)))
DX PCOS w/IR 01/08. Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
Diagnosis: MFI and Egg Quality Issues IVF#1-October-BFN ER-16 eggs, 8 mature, 7 fertilized, 2transferred and no frozen IVF#2- March-Beta 3/19 ER- 12 eggs, 8 mature, 7 fertilized, 2 transferred and 1 frozen-BFN. IVF#3 July ER-19 eggs, 13 mature, 10 fertilized...waiting til Day 5 to PGD. PGD results-4 out of 5 embryos are normal and will be banked. IVF#4 Sept 11' 22 eggs, 16 mature, 15 fertilized...waiting til Day 5 to PGD. Total normal embryos banked, quality varies: FET-Nov 11'-BFP Beta #1: 156, Beta #2: 489 First u/s revealed TWINS!! 2nd u/s= 2 beautiful heartbeats! 12/17 Lost one of the twins
I am so so incredibly sorry for your loss!! We will miss you on the board and will be here if you ever need us! Sending healing thoughts to you and your DH!!
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NO!!!! My heart is completley broken for you. I have been on the losing side of those odds as well, so I know just how hard this is. Do whatever it takes for you to heal, just know you will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am so very sorry. Huge hugs.
Renee- 37 DH - Chad - 39 2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins 3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks 5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks. D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death! Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis 5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN FET - 10/12/10 - BFN 1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN IVF - May - BFN 6/11 New RE - fingers crossed! 9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred 10/13 - BFP!! It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!
Re: Very bad news yesterday
Dx: PCOS, Anovulatory, Amenorrhea 2006
TTC: Sept 2008
IVF#1 Cancelled due to breast biopsy.05/01/20
IVF#1.2- 9/2010 - Cancelled Oversurpressed
IVF#2 Microdose Lupron 10/2010 Beta 11/09=BFN

IVF#3 2/2011 - 2 blasts(2/25) Beta 03/11 =BFN
IVF#4 Lupron 01/02 =2 blasts, beta's 1-4 198,234,398,3100!!BFP
FET 3/2014 2 blasts BETA 3/20=BFP TWINS EDD 11/27 TEAM PINK!!!
FVCK. FVCK. FVCK.
NOOOOOOO!
Holly, I'm so so sorry. I hate that this is happening. I hate that it is so hard for so many of us. I hate pg loss.
Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
FET #1 April 2011= BFN
FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138
Living After Losing
TTC since 2007
6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
Oh Holly, I'm so, so sorry. My heart breaks for you.
TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs
Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
I am so very sorry- I am in tears. I am thinking of you and wishing you all the best. So so sorry
Kristin
I'm glad you didn't mind me sharing my story. I just wanted you to know you are not alone. If you ever want to talk, I'm here.
I just remember feeling the most helpless feeling in the world....knowing that my so desparately-wanted child was gone and there was nothing I could do about it. With a missed m/c, you are absolutely blind-sided. It makes my heart ache and my stomach hurt just knowing the emotions that you're going through right now. I would tell people that I'd never get "over" losing my baby but in time I'd deal with it better...and over a year later, this is still how our feel.
Praying all goes smoothly tomorrow and will be thinking about you in the coming days.
"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see." Hebrews 11:1
I am so deeply saddened for you both and will miss you. Hoping for the best.
Huge huge huge hugs to you.
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
SAIF/PAIF Welcome
http://waitingforraintostop.wordpress.com
TTC Since 10/08 4 IUIs=BFNx4
IVF#1=BFP!! Twins!!
Bradley and Billy born and lost on 2/2/11 at 19w2d due to pPROM/PTL. I miss you, little angels.
IVF#2=BFN
IVF#3=c/p IVF#4=Empty Follicle Syndrome; 1 mature, fertilized, & made it to blast. 5dt of "the lone ranger" on 9/6. Please stick, little one!
After 1 IUI, 3 IVF's with CGH/CCS testing, 10 early miscarriages, and lots of tears and frustration, we are moving on to Domestic Infant Adoption! We are so excited to see what the future holds.
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
Our little miracle baby is a boy.
Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
"What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
SAIF/PAIF Welcome
Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
4 Clomid cycles + 3 IUIs w/ injectables + 1 IVF = 1 m/c, 1 ectopic
FET May 2011 = BFP! Beta 1 (8dp5dt): 336, Beta 2 (12dp5dt): 2033, Beta 3 (14dp5dt): 4706
? So thankful for our little guys, born at 33 weeks. ?
Moving forward with Adoption 2017!
PCOS, RPL, & Anti Cardiolipin Antibody
Dx PCOS 2003/high fasting insulin/clotting issues DH Dx with low sperm count, motility and morphology. Varicocele repair (11/1/2010)
2/2011 - Confirmed no improvement - On to Donor Sperm
4 failed IUIs in 2010
IUI#5 and 6- with DS, BFN
Final IUI - Lucky #7! IUI with DS - 20.Jun.2011 - 21.5 mil motile! Not so lucky - BFFN and the end of our IF journey....
Waiting for our family to be complete through Adoption - May 2012 - Hoping our baby finds us soon!
7 IUIs = All BFNs
2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN
2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
May IVF #3 = c/p
June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
July FET #2 = BFN
Aug FET #3 = BFN
Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
Dec FET #4 = BFN
2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
Sept FET #6 = TBD
**PAIF/SAIF Welcome**
After 2+ years and multiple treatment cycles,
including an IVF vacation in Costa Rica/Panama,
IVF #2 brought us our miracle baby!
Surprise! Baby Boy is on the way!
So sorry to hear your news.
Because we're fancy like that.
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**
Me: 32 - Stage II Endo / DH: 36 - Low count and morphology (1%)
IUIs 1-3 BFN, lap Dec. 2010, IUIs 4-6 BFN
IVF w/ICSI #1 - ER 2/8: 24R 19M 9F ET 2/13 2-5 day blasts (no frosties) = BFP - b/g twins!
E & C Born 10/19/2012
I'm so very sorry hun. ((hugs))
You and your DH will be in my thoughts and prayers.
2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks
5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
IVF - May - BFN
6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
10/13 - BFP!!
It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!