**madelyn**

DeputiesWife

so the scoop :

I am going to keep this nice because last night i flipped a lid with DH on the phone.

Roll in around 10 pm - get the airmattress out (i am perplexed at this moment), I am trying to have quiet time as its way past bedtime and now DD wants to help and I am even more annoyed at him. She seems nice - the girl - cause now I am like whats the airmattress for - and he didnt want to answer -- then a lightbulb goes on - its quieter down in the family room <insert i dont really want to know details here> -- but instead I say well you know you will hear everything down there with us walking - DH gets home at 4 am and we get up at 6 or so - and he shrugged it off...

so finally settle down - Im in bed - i hear the doors open and shut about 6 times from 1030 until midnight or so (the family room has french doors, they stick in the summer making them extremely loud to open), BIL is up the stairs twice - now my floors creak so its not like its quiet....I am fuming at this point...mostly hormone induced but come on its not like he is the only one living there. so he finally comes up to go to sleep at around 1230. Really?! i was watching social network (good movie) to calm myself down...

so thats kind of the nice story -- when i was texting DH about it because i couldnt talk on the phone -- i might have started screaming and they would have heard me....i threw in a few cuss words and get him the F out a few times so DH said he will and make him chip in for something.

we shall see what today's adventure will bring...hopefully they wont be home. Oh and they're going to the beach this weekend -- guess who didnt get invited yet we invite him to go everywhere. I think its rude. 

ok -- sorry that was some sort of rant too -- thank you for listening.  

madelyn07

Wow..what a mess!

I would have been livid, too! 

He needs to grow up.. 

 

 

 

DeputiesWife

yes. he is 30. acts like he is 18 or something most of the time. 

madelyn07

He is 30?!? Oh my. Based on what you've said uveitis have assumed he was like 23-24..goodness. Does he not have any plans of moving out?

DeputiesWife

yes. 30. he and I were in the same classes in HS.

well he apparently isnt too motivated. why would he be. he has it easy.

BUT Dh said its time for him to at least start looking. im like its been time!